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patphil

(8,255 posts)
23. I'm 79; married to a wonderful woman who's actually willing to put up with me.
Mon Sep 15, 2025, 12:09 PM
Monday

And that hasn't been easy for her.
I remember how bad it was for women in the 50's and 60's. Women couldn't take out a loan, or even get a credit card without a man co-signing for it.
Back then, women went to college to be a nurse, a librarian, or a teacher, and not much else. Many women who worked held jobs like secretary, switchboard operator, receptionist, clerk...service jobs that coordinated the activities of others.
Very very few had positions of power and authority. And the pay was less than for a man in the same job.

Things have slowly changed for the better over the decades , but misogynistic men want to go back to the "good old days".
As my brother-in-law would say, when he teased his wife, "barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen".

Very few women are willing to go back there. It seems to me that the only ones who are have serious self worth issues.
I can't see the women of this country putting up with that, and I stand solid with them in that regard.

I applaud your independence.

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What is his diagnosis? nt DURHAM D Monday #1
Some people are simply Assholes IbogaProject Monday #25
All the while he leans heavily on his current wife for advice on how to run the allegorical oracle Monday #28
These f*cks don't know what they are in for. We're Not Going Back. Not Now. Not Ever. Joinfortmill Monday #2
Passage of Equal Rights for women is long overdue dlk Monday #3
How do these Neanderthals propose to repeal the 19th Amendment? no_hypocrisy Monday #4
TSF Sharpie's an EO durablend Monday #8
The same way they have defacto repealed the 4th amendment DBoon Monday #9
They don't actually have to repeal 19A. .just make it impossible, state by state, niyad Monday #19
They'll just ignore it like all the others. IronLionZion Monday #22
Faux libertarians hate the women's vote & hate transgenders. Real libertarians believe women & trans should have rights Bernardo de La Paz Monday #5
Why don't you just call them Magats or Republicans. ananda Monday #10
Because the article mentioned libertarians and maga/RepubliCons are faux libertarians Bernardo de La Paz Monday #11
OK. This country is utterly crazy. ananda Monday #21
The first amendment guarantees them the right to debate all they want Fiendish Thingy Monday #6
See post 19. niyad Monday #20
Fuck all you evil pieces of shit !!!!!!!!!!!!!! SamKnause Monday #7
Faux libertarians are afraid of a level playing field, hence misogyny, racism and anti-woke. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz Monday #12
Women CAN and women DO! Heidi Monday #13
Thank you so much. SamKnause Monday #14
I'm 79; married to a wonderful woman who's actually willing to put up with me. patphil Monday #23
Thank you. SamKnause Monday #29
Thank you! Heidi Monday #31
Cool! brakester Monday #24
Good luck on your path. SamKnause Monday #30
I can only imagine the backlash, but..... RT Atlanta Monday #15
It takes what it takes to affect change. Heidi Monday #32
I truly believe that there is an epidemic of 1WorldHope Monday #16
Good point: why is ED treatment covered by health insurance, and BC pills not? marble falls Monday #18
The ACA requires free birth control under most plans. tritsofme Monday #27
Not to mention brakester Monday #26
Yup, and I'm lookin' at all cops in the audience. Heidi Monday #33
Their goal is to create a neo-feudal society. An important part of that is to strip women and others of their rights, Fil1957 Monday #17
Let's try something different Wifes husband Monday #34
Have you seen the electoral maps if only women voted? yardwork Monday #37
Simple Solution... Escape Monday #35
This was one of Charlie Kirk's main messages. yardwork Monday #36
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