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H2O Man

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22. Thank you.
Fri Sep 12, 2025, 10:35 PM
Sep 12

Things were getting very tense. I saw so many maga-ites posting about "civil war" and splattering their hatred on the internet. And that included some messages on other people's stuff that were very anti-me. Gracious.

A long story short: years ago, a good friend of mine died. His teenaged daughter was left without a parent, as her mother was in prison. One sunny morning, I was taking a walk in my pine forest. I saw a tent in a clearing. Being curious, I approached it. My friend's daughter said she had been there a couple of days. I had a pretty good idea that my younger son played some role in this, knowing how his father had been at that age.

There are many rooms in this old house. Besides my four children, we've had a foreign exchange student and at least a dozen "stray" kids live with us. From my experiences as a homeless teen, I was aware that situation has risks. So my kids and I invited her to live with us. While here, she got her GED, driver's license, and enrolled in college.

Her aunt from another state visited when she was here. But she had conflicts with most of her father's siblings. They were thankful to seeing her doing well here. Eventually, as an adult, she moved south to be near her extended family. My daughters and I drove down to visit her. When she had problems, she knew she could call me 24/7 ..... and often did.

We communicated every so often on FB. But after Kirk's murder, she made a post demanding that all "leftists" leave her page. I noted that I am a leftist, as was her father. Where did that leave us? I suggested being against violent people. She responded in an ugly manner. So I left her page. I'm old, and don't have enough energy to invest any in those who talk to me that way.

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Three Thoughts [View all] H2O Man Sep 11 OP
Thanks. Hope somebody listens and spreads the word. Silent Type Sep 11 #1
Thank you! H2O Man Sep 11 #2
Already MAGA neighbors of mine Saoirse9 Sep 11 #3
Oh, great! H2O Man Sep 11 #5
K&R TheProle Sep 11 #4
Thank you! H2O Man Sep 11 #6
Is it hatred that begets fear or fear that begets hatred? LoisB Sep 11 #7
The chicken or the egg. H2O Man Sep 11 #8
True. LoisB Sep 11 #9
This level of enlightenment is miraculous in someone who suffered such injustice Easterncedar Sep 11 #10
Thank you. H2O Man Sep 11 #12
We used to talk of rehabilitation Easterncedar Sep 11 #14
I remember when H2O Man Sep 11 #15
How malaise Sep 11 #11
It is hard. H2O Man Sep 11 #13
Reality is not much consolation Easterncedar Sep 12 #16
I remember decades ago, H2O Man Sep 12 #17
I want to amplify this message Easterncedar Sep 12 #20
Thank you. H2O Man Sep 12 #22
I remember you counseled me Saoirse9 Sep 12 #21
I remember! H2O Man Sep 12 #23
K&R spanone Sep 12 #18
Thanks! H2O Man Sep 12 #19
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