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Elder-caregivers

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MissMillie

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Sun Nov 10, 2019, 05:59 PM Nov 2019

I had a wonderful visit w/ my Mom this past week [View all]

She's in the dementia ward at a local long-term care facility.

She doesn't remember me.

But at this visit she was up and showered and dressed and sitting in the community room. (She often refuses to get dressed in the morning.) She was waiting her turn for the hair dresser, as were several other residents.

The nurse's aide came in and said she would put the TV on, but that she didn't know how. She added that she'd sing for everyone, but she thought they wouldn't like that.

So I started singing.

Let Me Call You Sweetheart
I Love You a Bushel and a Peck
(You've Got the Cutest Little) Baby Face
You Are My Sunshine

Despite being in a unit where people don't have much of a memory anymore, a lot of the residents knew the words and sang along.

I'm going to dig out my ukulele and learn a bunch of songs. It was just so much fun, that I want to do it again.

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That is a valuable use of your time 3Hotdogs Nov 2019 #1
Music reaches through, somehow. luvs2sing Nov 2019 #2
My dad died in June at the age of 91. babylonsister Nov 2019 #3
My sister-in-law Ohiogal Nov 2019 #4
You are simply a beautiful person. Thanks for being you. n/t. NNadir Nov 2019 #5
That's wonderful! NurseJackie Nov 2019 #6
Yayyyyy! Trueblue Texan Jan 2020 #7
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