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IrishAyes

(6,151 posts)
5. I'll try to get a copy to read.
Mon Mar 24, 2014, 12:00 AM
Mar 2014

Sometimes it bothers me the way too many people who are afraid to be alone themselves, malign those of us who prefer it. As if we're the dangerously maladjusted ones. When I lived in AZ at the end of a 5-mile dirt road on a little ranch bordering state land, one of the awful women at work told everybody I lived in a Kazenski shack and the boss said bad things about me as a result. I offered to drive her out there to show her my place, which had been custom built by a contractor for his retirement so you can bet it was no shack - but she preferred to believe what the devil woman told her.

A book I found at a sale at the little library here is called 'The Joy of Solitude'. But I want to read the other one too. Thanks for the post. I like reading stuff that makes me feel normal!

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My theory angstlessk Feb 2014 #1
so true nt steve2470 Mar 2014 #3
As Dear Abby said, better to be alone than to wish you were. IrishAyes Mar 2014 #4
maybe theres a middle ground 1dogleft Sep 2014 #14
Thanks. I'll check it out. nt bemildred Feb 2014 #2
I'll try to get a copy to read. IrishAyes Mar 2014 #5
"normal" just means "average", actually. dixiegrrrrl Mar 2014 #6
I'll try to find a copy of something I read about the solitary lifestyle and post it here; IrishAyes Mar 2014 #7
this culture NJCher May 2014 #8
I read a good one..... llmart May 2014 #10
Is "The Joy of Solitude" written by May Sarton? llmart May 2014 #9
I think that was the book. IrishAyes May 2014 #11
Wow! I didn't even know this group existed Lifelong Protester May 2014 #12
Pls. feel to post here... dixiegrrrrl May 2014 #13
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