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fairfaxvadem

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10. I think we get here from many places...
Tue Jan 2, 2018, 01:41 AM
Jan 2018

I’m the youngest of 6, but was alone w/parents by age 12. Could come and go as I please, basically. Had loads of friends and parents complained about my never being home. But I was always happy when the siblings came home.

My work requires a lot of travel, meetings, social crap, so maybe part of this is just burnout I’m sure. Friends and family have become very understanding, and I’m grateful. I had the last two weeks off and I spent most of it by myself. Not all by no means but I was very picky about what I did and when. Otherwise, I stayed home doing my own thing and so happy to be left to myself.

My oldest sister pointed out that she and I are introverts and that introverts are not anti-social, they just need their space and time alone to recharge the old batteries to re-engage with the world. I agree with that.

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I haven't had a social life in decades and I'm quite comfortable The Velveteen Ocelot Jan 2018 #1
'Kay, if it suits you shenmue Jan 2018 #2
Hi, dear heart! sprinkleeninow Jan 2018 #7
Ditto, only with dogs. sinkingfeeling Jan 2018 #15
Can totally relate... fairfaxvadem Jan 2018 #3
"I have a few friends who are still constantly doing something. Wears me out" mitch96 Jan 2018 #4
I think we get here from many places... fairfaxvadem Jan 2018 #10
The upside to having no social life is having a no drama lifestyle... TheDebbieDee Jan 2018 #5
A *major* upside! silverweb Jan 2018 #6
Thank you! sprinkleeninow Jan 2018 #8
I'm with you on that. safeinOhio Jan 2018 #16
no drama lifestyle... mitch96 Jan 2018 #17
me myself I - room to breathe from joan armatrading.... msongs Jan 2018 #9
Love her smile! backtoblue Feb 2018 #19
I use to dress like her by accident. But I thought a lot like her. rusty quoin Jan 2018 #11
stupid experiment Skittles Jan 2018 #12
A 30+ year career in the medical profession changed me Thekaspervote Jan 2018 #13
Several things. no_hypocrisy Jan 2018 #14
It's that inevitable LWolf Jan 2018 #18
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