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Mika

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7. Thanks to all here. Very much appreciated.
Thu Apr 4, 2013, 03:20 PM
Apr 2013

My dear and sweet friend and brother Mike was on a downward spiral since the crash. Was in construction. Lost it all. Biz, house, all of it. After his divorce 4 years ago he travelled hi and low, relocating from state to state wherever there was some promise. Only to have it fall apart in layoffs and austerity. Hard not to be depressed after such and so many changes for the worse. Went from a middle class homeowner w/a family, to a day laborer. Seeing it all around you. Alone. Living in shit shacks. Constant exhaustion and worry. Depression. He would not accept help from his friends, and could not get help elsewhere. We all tried. It was not enough. He had had enough, saw no point to it. Swallowed some pills with cheap booze. Went to sleep.
I'm still experiencing some cognitive dissonance. Hard to believe that I'll never speak to or hear or see this sweet soul again.

Thanks again, to all.



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Oh Mika, I'm so sorry. polly7 Apr 2013 #1
I'm sorry A Little Weird Apr 2013 #2
Vibes to you and her family. applegrove Apr 2013 #3
So sorry Mika, cry all you need to... auntAgonist Apr 2013 #4
I am so sorry. ellie Apr 2013 #5
Mika....I am so sorry livetohike Apr 2013 #6
Thanks to all here. Very much appreciated. Mika Apr 2013 #7
I tried to put my thoughts into words here and I fail miserably ... auntAgonist Apr 2013 #8
Hi Mika ellie Apr 2013 #9
Thanks, ellie. Mika Apr 2013 #10
Very sorry for your loss. 47of74 Apr 2013 #11
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