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Bereavement

CTyankee

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9. Yes. I am now planning a trip to Barcelona and Paris with my daughter, mostly for art.

Reply to 2naSalit (Reply #6)

Mon Aug 23, 2021, 01:11 PM

Aug 2021

She is my editor/designer for my art books. I'm working on my second book but have not been functioning well since the death. I'm slowly coming out of it and sat down to write a few days ago. I'm on my way, I hope!

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Mourning the death of my former husband (father of my 3 kids). [View all] CTyankee Aug 2021 OP

Takes Time DanieRains Aug 2021 #1

Thanks. Just knowing that helps. CTyankee Aug 2021 #2

Every person is different, every stage of grief unique to that person. chia Aug 2021 #3

It is a special form of grief Lulu KC Aug 2021 #4

My problem is that his ex was his former student and it was their affair that caused my divorcing CTyankee Aug 2021 #5

Sounds like things worked out in your favor Lulu KC Aug 2021 #8

I'll have to see the "grieving" widow at Thanksgiving. CTyankee Aug 2021 #11

I am dealing with that... 2naSalit Aug 2021 #6

Yes. I am now planning a trip to Barcelona and Paris with my daughter, mostly for art. CTyankee Aug 2021 #9

The fact that... 2naSalit Aug 2021 #12

Well, my book is about art history and I can get lost in the eras of art that I write about. CTyankee Aug 2021 #13

Far from superficial... 2naSalit Aug 2021 #14

Thanks for the good words and encouragement. I will indeed let others know when it is finished and CTyankee Aug 2021 #16

an odd thing happened when my ex (abusive narcissist) passed a few years ago. Grasswire2 Aug 2021 #7

That is hard to take! It's unfair and deeply insensitive. CTyankee Aug 2021 #10

Mourning the loss of a more innocent self untarnished by bitter resentment lostnfound Aug 2021 #15

Of course, I am always connected to him through our children. CTyankee Aug 2021 #17