We get text messages instead

[SHRED]

18. Thank you

We sent out a link to many relatives yesterday of a memorial website we made for him.

Very little response.
More salt in the wound.

I guess we are expecting too much but I tell you what...If one of my daughter's husbands lost their parent I'd be on the phone in a heartbeat. I called my friend when he lost his 18 year old son last January. I called him one day after and that was difficult. One of my son in laws texted me he was sorry for not calling and said he just "shuts down" in times like this. At least he did that but I still look at that as real selfish. My kids call me and I call them when they have issues but they NEVER call me or us when we do.

I will probably need to tell them how all this has affected us but a part of me dreads what it will dredge up.