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JanMichael

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10. Call your state board
Fri Oct 5, 2012, 08:04 AM
Oct 2012

and ask for a rec. for a lawyer...stay in contact with the executor. More than likely you will easily find a lawyer to give you a free consultation. There is also a good chance that you can find one that will ask for a very low retainer fee to examine the documents-- and will agree to be paid in full after the estate is settled.

Just off the top of my head, I would think there's a possibility that the housekeeper wrote a will and had him sign it-- but, I doubt she went far enough to make it legally valid. There is also a very good possibility that the...I can't remember what you call it? Hologram? or something like that-- will was signed when he was under the influence of pain meds, and frankly that dog don't hunt.

It's hard to not feel "screwed" and just say "well damn...this didn't work out...." especially when you are already tired, and broke.

I am NOT a lawyer; but I have used one to deal with a financial situation before, and once you just TALK to one...just get a sense that someone is going to be on your side, you will feel better immediately.

Do not give up on this; think of what your uncle would have really wanted if he had been healthy. Go with that. Take a big assed vitamin pill, call the executor, your brother, AND get a consultation.

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I wish I could be of some help Digit Oct 2012 #1
Thank you so much! LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #16
sometimes life just really throws you for a loop NJCher Oct 2012 #2
Thank you, NJCher. LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #17
LiberalEsto Howler Oct 2012 #3
Hugs to you too, Howler! LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #18
Praying... Fire Walk With Me Oct 2012 #4
Thank you, Fire Walk LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #19
I am so sorry Tumbulu Oct 2012 #5
Thanks. That would be wonderful! LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #20
I am so sorry! cate94 Oct 2012 #6
Thank you, cate94! LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #21
Wow! I am so sorry... icymist Oct 2012 #7
Thank you, icymist! LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #22
... Tsiyu Oct 2012 #8
Thanks, Tsiyu! LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #23
I, too, am so sorry.... OneGrassRoot Oct 2012 #9
You're right, OneGrassRoot LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #24
Call your state board JanMichael Oct 2012 #10
I agree completely with everything JanMichael said, but I wanted to add something, too. davsand Oct 2012 #11
and we agree with this too! JanMichael Oct 2012 #12
Thank you, davsand. LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #25
Thank you for this great advice! LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #13
Holographic was the word you were looking for. SheilaT Oct 2012 #29
... Mnemosyne Oct 2012 #14
Thank you, Mnemosyne LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #26
Sometimes we just get hammered, don't we? My heart goes out to you all Mnemosyne Oct 2012 #28
.... magical thyme Oct 2012 #15
Thank you, magical thyme! LiberalEsto Oct 2012 #27
Look carefully at what JanMichael said. SheilaT Oct 2012 #30
Thank you for this! I was hoping someone with professional experience JanMichael Oct 2012 #31
Big hug to you LiberalEsto. glinda Oct 2012 #32
I had 2 uncles pass in one day. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #33
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