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luvs2sing

(2,234 posts)
22. Over 24 years married.
Tue Oct 25, 2022, 08:43 PM
Oct 2022

We met at work, but the crazy backstory is that we had been in the same big social circle for over ten years, had tons of mutual friends, and had never met.

It gets crazier. Hubster is a popular local musician, and I had gone to see all of his bands over the years, and we never met. I don’t even remember seeing him on a stage (wasn’t really into musicians).

Crazier yet, in the late 80s, he moved out of state, and I found myself tagging along with a bunch of friends to his going away party! We got there late, there wasn’t much going on, and I decided to walk home after about a half hour. No, I didn’t know whose party I was going to, except that it was one of the guys in the band we had just gone to see.

And we never met until he moved back two years later and was splitting up with his then wife and started working at the company where I worked. It was love at first sight for both of us, causing all our friends to kick themselves for not introducing us sooner and saving both of us a couple of lousy marriages.

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Yes, 50 years. Met 51 years ago. ProudMNDemocrat Oct 2022 #1
How did you meet? trof Oct 2022 #4
30 happy years. Met on the golf course. SharonAnn Oct 2022 #2
Yes, 37 years. onecaliberal Oct 2022 #3
How did you meet? Mine was a 'blind' date. trof Oct 2022 #6
I worked at a soda counter next to a business owned by his parents. onecaliberal Oct 2022 #8
Foursome? trof Oct 2022 #5
48 years - met at a friend's bar. rurallib Oct 2022 #7
28 years redstatebluegirl Oct 2022 #9
This message was self-deleted by its author Baked Potato Oct 2022 #10
Yes, 10 years, funeral. Xipe Totec Oct 2022 #11
yes.... mike_c Oct 2022 #12
20+years markie Oct 2022 #13
Yes. 47 years. Met in May 1973 in college. I saw him in the cafeteria livetohike Oct 2022 #14
56 years Timewas Oct 2022 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author Baked Potato Oct 2022 #19
Been fun Timewas Oct 2022 #26
Met my Sweetheart, of blessed memory, on a blind date. Mme. Defarge Oct 2022 #16
I'm 60, she's 55, we met 14 years ago and have been married for 12... Drum Oct 2022 #17
47 years. At the bank, she was a teller. Sneederbunk Oct 2022 #18
44 years. bmbmd Oct 2022 #20
43 years - met through a mutual friend. flor-de-jasmim Oct 2022 #21
Over 24 years married. luvs2sing Oct 2022 #22
Yes, 32 years. Quakerfriend Oct 2022 #23
62 years, met in college, married 5 years later, after other relationships. enough Oct 2022 #24
Married 26 years. Met at a dance at College. The dance hall we met at has been demolished. texasfiddler Oct 2022 #25
Yes. 44 Years. Met 47 years ago, in college . . . Journeyman Oct 2022 #27
54 years DavidDvorkin Oct 2022 #28
I have to say I do not condone this, but... OldBaldy1701E Oct 2022 #29
Married Nov 1, 1969 aka-chmeee Oct 2022 #30
April 12, 1969. trof Oct 2022 #33
48 years here! ShazzieB Oct 2022 #31
Met 32 years ago at a Star Trek convention Random Boomer Oct 2022 #32
It's a complicated story, but I'll try to do the Cliff's Notes version. trof Oct 2022 #34
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