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3Hotdogs

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4. It would certainly depend on the circumstances under which you reach your 70's, 80's or whichever.
Mon Jan 13, 2020, 08:19 AM
Jan 2020

I am 77, health is between an 8 or 9. I have a heart problem and high blood pressure that don't affect my live but are always in the back of my mind. I have photography as a hobby and hiking club, 4 hikes a week. Being in the woods, next to a flowing stream is a great pleasure.

On the down side is depression. Since Joyce died, I no longer want to go on trips or whatever. There is little joy in my life.

Then there is the problem of my housemate's health. We have lived together since 1984. All of her major organs are in distress, requiring trips to medical care, and physical therapy 6 days a week. No matter how healthy I am, I still get a twinge when friends decline or experience a health problem.

Grand kids: They are a joy but they also grow up and grow away. The oldest goes to college in Sept. We spent much time together, bird watching and photography. When he reached puberty, he wanted to spend time with his friends... understandable, but it was a sad time.

Sorry if this is too much of a downer.

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I just turned 70 a month ago.. whathehell Jan 2020 #1
Two more years before I hit the big 7-0 SCantiGOP Jan 2020 #13
Yup. whathehell Jan 2020 #15
By the time your 70 Joinfortmill Jan 2020 #2
It's like describing the changes you experienced since your 50's. Croney Jan 2020 #3
It would certainly depend on the circumstances under which you reach your 70's, 80's or whichever. 3Hotdogs Jan 2020 #4
On my more positive side, mortgage is paid off. SS and pension come in, regular. 3Hotdogs Jan 2020 #7
Not a downer, feel free to share, our emotional health is as important as Canoe52 Jan 2020 #14
I'm thinner and healthier. Traveling more solo and going sinkingfeeling Jan 2020 #5
My job was stimulating but also stressful. Now that I'm retired and in my 70s, greymattermom Jan 2020 #6
I am so sorry about your husband. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2020 #17
I am 72 cyclonefence Jan 2020 #8
I'm genuinely distressed that for both of you PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2020 #18
I will be 72 in June... Freedomofspeech Jan 2020 #9
I thought you meant in an Polly Hennessey Jan 2020 #10
I don't think you can separate the physical lillypaddle Jan 2020 #11
Its not but it certainly beats the only possible alternative! marble falls Jan 2020 #12
Meh. Not much. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2020 #16
For me it was 75. I'm 78 now. trof Feb 2020 #19
i'm nearly 72 and I am still changing diapers etc on my handicapped demigoddess Feb 2020 #20
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