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MIButterfly

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10. I don't know what she's enamored wirh

Reply to Figarosmom (Reply #5)

Mon May 11, 2026, 03:17 AM

May 11

because I can't see anything even remotely attractive about him. I used to see men that looked like him in store parking lots and wonder what woman on God's green earth would be attracted to someone like that. I now have my answer.

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I've always gotten along with my friends' boyfriends and husbands [View all] MIButterfly May 11 OP

I think that some people just react to flattery, and as we get older, who knows? usonian May 11 #1

I had to part ways NJCher May 11 #2

Sounds dangerous. I wish the best for her. live love laugh May 11 #3

Thank you, live laugh love MIButterfly May 11 #13

may I ask, how did these two meet? Skittles May 11 #4

This is the most unbelievable part to me MIButterfly May 11 #9

scary Skittles May 11 #14

Sadly, her son passed away last year. He was only 37 MIButterfly May 11 #15

oh my Skittles May 11 #16

It's the age difference Figarosmom May 11 #5

I don't know what she's enamored wirh MIButterfly May 11 #10

yup. i had a brief fling w a much younger guy. mopinko May 11 #17

Sorry to hear that. Haggard Celine May 11 #6

Tell her how YOU feel... BurnDoubt May 11 #8

I have told her how I feel and I only talked about him one time MIButterfly May 11 #11

When she has her Epiphany... BurnDoubt May 11 #21

Thank you so much, BurnDoubt MIButterfly May 11 #25

Sorry to hear what this is putting you through, MIButterfly. calimary May 11 #7

Thank you for your kind words, calimary MIButterfly May 11 #12

some girls just like bad boys rampartd May 11 #18

I've always wondered about that. It never made any kind of sense to me MIButterfly May 11 #19

on the back of every harley is a woman who thought she could change him. rampartd May 11 #20

And a jacket that sez: BurnDoubt May 11 #22

for evolutionary reasons, i guess rampartd May 11 #23

How about THAT! BurnDoubt May 11 #24

You say she comes down to see her family. Could you try to see her then and maybe get to know the family. ratchiweenie Tuesday #26

I'm friends with her sister and she hates him MIButterfly Tuesday #27