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PoindexterOglethorpe

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3. I'm 76, currently in a senior facility for about six months. It has both independent and assisted living.
Sat Apr 26, 2025, 04:58 PM
Apr 2025

I'm independent.

I like it a lot. No yard to fuss with. Don't need to cook, if I don't want. In fact, I only have a kitchenette (no stove, just two burner top, microwave, and fridge.) Every week there are various events: trips to local museums or sights, lunch out somewhere on Fridays, karaoke, stuff like that. It's up to me how much to do, how much time to spend alone or with others. Plus, of course, I do other things (like Trivia) unconnected to my living place.

I have two cats myself, and I'd say nearly half the residents have a cat or dog or two. Unless you have very large dogs, yours shouldn't be a problem.

It's been my observation over the years that most people put off this kind of move by two, three, four, or more years. Don't be that way. Yes, I understand you put in a lot of work to your place, and you will miss it dreadfully if you leave. But sometimes it is just time to move on.

In short, I really like it here. I'm in Santa Fe, and at dinner these days we mostly trash-talk Trump and all Republicans.

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No, not been there bucolic_frolic Apr 2025 #1
if i got the place in rly good shape, mopinko Apr 2025 #7
lol, wouldn't use AI. fair enough. bucolic_frolic Apr 2025 #10
Please don't recommend AI, especially to people who might not be familiar with generative AI highplainsdem Apr 2025 #23
yeah, i think it is a pox on humanity. mopinko Apr 2025 #31
As you get older - really senior yrs- it's vital to find those who will come to your aid No Vested Interest Apr 2025 #2
my kids r scattered and mopinko Apr 2025 #5
Yes, we have to learn to zip our lips at times with some of our kids. No Vested Interest Apr 2025 #9
i've had a couple. mopinko Apr 2025 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author anciano Apr 2025 #12
I'm 76, currently in a senior facility for about six months. It has both independent and assisted living. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2025 #3
yeah. my mil mopinko Apr 2025 #17
I only know this one facility, but there are absolutely PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2025 #20
Every situation is different IbogaProject Apr 2025 #30
in Madison, lots of places. Tetrachloride Apr 2025 #4
i wouldnt leave chicago, i dont think. mopinko Apr 2025 #6
You shouldn't have to move very far PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2025 #21
yeah, there r a couple good 1s that i know of already. mopinko Apr 2025 #32
Ohh, I doubt that will be a problem. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2025 #34
I've made a deposit on a "continuing care community"-- viva la Apr 2025 #8
i have a couple other properties, so mopinko Apr 2025 #14
That sounds like a great group to join! viva la Apr 2025 #18
yeah. the lady that lives there mopinko Apr 2025 #33
I live alone in a 'small' house, near daughter, son in law, elleng Apr 2025 #11
This sounds like a good situation. No Vested Interest Apr 2025 #13
your daughter and fam mopinko Apr 2025 #16
They're VERY good eggs! elleng Apr 2025 #19
We live in Senior Apartments KarenS Apr 2025 #22
it's the gossip i worry about. mopinko Apr 2025 #25
Meh. Gossip is gossip. PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2025 #35
well, me irl mopinko Apr 2025 #36
My experience in this senior housing is not remotely like PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2025 #37
well, that's comforting. mopinko Apr 2025 #38
i plan to spend as much of the inheritance as possible. mopinko Apr 2025 #26
Go ahead and spend the children's inheritence! PoindexterOglethorpe Apr 2025 #28
If you are starting to feel you should IbogaProject Apr 2025 #24
well, i feel less that way now that i am feeling better. mopinko Apr 2025 #27
we live in Sun City, AZ mike_c Apr 2025 #29
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