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mopinko

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25. def talk to the shrink, not the therapist.

Reply to get the red out (Original post)

Sun Dec 9, 2018, 11:54 PM

Dec 2018

this is not an issue for a therapist. it is an issue for the md here.
he may not be able to talk to you, but he can listen. make him listen.

also, how is he paying for the hotel? talk to them. cut his credit card.
they may not be the best place to put pressure, but trust me, hotels see a lot of shit. i have no doubt they dont want this to get any stickier.
they may well help out by calling the cops.

:hugs: to you my dear. this is all so hard on families. we are here for you.

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My husband's bipolar delusions are back [View all] get the red out Dec 2018 OP

Sending you compassion TEB Dec 2018 #1

Thanks get the red out Dec 2018 #2

I'm no Mental Health Specialist HumblePi Dec 2018 #3

Two thoughts, both from experience marylandblue Dec 2018 #4

This arithia Dec 2018 #5

His Therapist is new get the red out Dec 2018 #10

Brain chemistry can change and cause breakthrough marylandblue Dec 2018 #12

Wow get the red out Dec 2018 #14

If they signed HIPAA forms for each other, then yes. marylandblue Dec 2018 #15

Bottom line: THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT. NONE OF IT. pnwmom Dec 2018 #6

+1 Not your fault marylandblue Dec 2018 #8

Thanks get the red out Dec 2018 #13

Very stressful. Scarsdale Dec 2018 #7

Right now not get the red out Dec 2018 #31

Some thoughts. kstewart33 Dec 2018 #9

Thanks get the red out Dec 2018 #11

Wait. The therapist is telling you to divorce him instead of ordering a psychiatric hold on him? DRoseDARs Dec 2018 #16

Her husband threatened divorce, it didn't come from the therapist marylandblue Dec 2018 #17

I'm saying the hotel might call the police and she needs to get ahead of that before it happens. DRoseDARs Dec 2018 #22

He has a history of bipolar, and this type of delusion is almost classic bipolar marylandblue Dec 2018 #23

An interesting and disheartening response. DRoseDARs Dec 2018 #24

That was my thought get the red out Dec 2018 #32

NOBODY can "order a psychiatric hold" unless Thunderbeast Dec 2018 #28

Call his psychiatrist mgardener Dec 2018 #18

my brother is bi-polar. ginnyinWI Dec 2018 #19

My best friend developed bipolar hypomania in 2013 Jarqui Dec 2018 #20

In this delusional state, can't it be determined that he may be of danger to himself/or others and iluvtennis Dec 2018 #21

def talk to the shrink, not the therapist. mopinko Dec 2018 #25

Oh my, so sorry to hear what you're going through... sendin' you BIG hugz InAbLuEsTaTe Dec 2018 #26

My Son is Bipolar - I Can Relate to Your Difficulties dlk Dec 2018 #27

Not a mental health professional but I've plenty of experience with bipolar people. Laffy Kat Dec 2018 #29

You are a kind and compassionate person Bayard Dec 2018 #30

Thank you get the red out Dec 2018 #33

Update get the red out Dec 2018 #34

Have you contacted his psychiatrist yet? marylandblue Dec 2018 #35

How are things going for you and for him? irisblue Dec 2018 #36

Getting a divorce get the red out Dec 2018 #37

I'm sorry this is happening for you. irisblue Dec 2018 #38

Trying to get the red out Dec 2018 #39

I love all types of dog shows!!! irisblue Dec 2018 #40

Dogs are amazing blessings get the red out Dec 2018 #41

What a pretty girl 😍 irisblue Dec 2018 #42

She came into my life get the red out Dec 2018 #43

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Sending you hugs irisblue Jan 2019 #45