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In reply to the discussion: When is it time [View all]

get the red out

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15. Honey, no, it's not like that
Mon Apr 14, 2014, 01:13 PM
Apr 2014

We all have our path. My Mom was crazy as hell and refused treatment until we made her as a last resort a few years ago. My sister and I have inherited her genes, and bad mental health genes from our Dad's side too. What you are is what my Mom was never capable of when my illness appeared, LOVING. You still love your child. My Mom could not do that. When I asked for help for my severe OCD and depression at 17 I became my illness in her eyes, I was no longer her honor student, I was sickness walking. You love your son, you are a good Mom. My Mom wasn't capable of that because she was so caught up in her own fear of someone figuring out that the apple didn't fall too far from the tree. And as sick as she was, that was probably all she could do.

You have love, you are a good Mom!!!!!

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When is it time [View all] mzteris Apr 2014 OP
. libodem Apr 2014 #1
That's a tough choices in a nightmare situation. I know a little bit of what you're going through... marble falls Apr 2014 #2
he drove to the studio. mzteris Apr 2014 #5
We all have an aspect that others cannot understand. marble falls Apr 2014 #12
VERY rough. elleng Apr 2014 #3
That would be good. mzteris Apr 2014 #6
Good to hear you actually SPOKE with his therapist, elleng Apr 2014 #7
Thank God you could talk to her get the red out Apr 2014 #14
oh, mzteris fizzgig Apr 2014 #4
If it weren't for my younger son mzteris Apr 2014 #8
Sounds like a little progress has already been made libodem Apr 2014 #9
thank you. mzteris Apr 2014 #10
That is a good sign that he is reaching out libodem Apr 2014 #11
Then why mzteris Apr 2014 #13
Honey, no, it's not like that get the red out Apr 2014 #15
Thanks. mzteris Apr 2014 #16
The really scary part is if you get law enforcement involved angstlessk Jun 2014 #17
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