Or the birthday she gave me a 'slap chop' device she got at a closeout discount ($5). I was at her house when my sister stopped by, on her birthday, and she got a card with a generous check inside.
Right now I'm struggling to get the house ready for out of town guests while also keeping a close eye on a very clingy little kitten. My riding mower is out of commission and my lawn desperately needs mowing. It's a big lot so there's no way I have the energy to cut the grass with a push mower. Everyone knows this but no one has offered to help until I, just now, sent a desperate text to my brother. It's hard going through life as nobody's priority.
Little Merlin is taking up a lot of my energy, the election is causing a lot of stress and anxiety, and I'm in no shape for guests.
So I empathize with you, but urge you to never give up. I've lost so many people - both friends and family - over the past 10 years and constantly ask why am I the one still here. There is a reason, of course, but sometimes it's hard to see or remember.
Remember that your DU friends are always here for you. 
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