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Showing Original Post only (View all)Are there any other DU'ers here who lost a parent (death) in childhood? [View all]
I am learning more and more these days how much this affects me as an adult.  Ive always known I had certainly been affected by this, but the stresses of this past year have made this more pronounced.  
I believe some of this has been positive in resulting in a better understanding.  My mother died of cancer when I was eight.
Just wondering if there are other DUers who lost a parent in childhood who might want to share some thoughts and open a dialogue.  My understanding is that children who were abused, abandoned, etc. experience much the same in adulthood as those who had a parent pass away, so that may be part of the discussion as well. 
						
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                        Are there any other DU'ers here who lost a parent (death) in childhood? [View all]
							hamsterjill
							Mar 2021
							OP
                        
        
        My two stepchildren lost their mother. A child psychologist told my husband their grades wouldn't
        Karadeniz
        Mar 2021
        #2
      
        
        Not exactly childhood, but my father  died of cancer when I was in high school. I can't say...
        TreasonousBastard
        Mar 2021
        #9
      
        
        "Blame" might not be the best word. As with you, it's more a question of understanding. But...
        TreasonousBastard
        Mar 2021
        #26
      
        
        The fact you had a twin and he had you likely gave you both a combined strength you wouldn't have
        No Vested Interest
        Mar 2021
        #30
      
        
        I was not as young as my sister who  was 8, I was 17 but I have had lots of abandonment issues
        redstatebluegirl
        Mar 2021
        #21
      
  