Chronic Health Conditions Discussion and Support

housewolf

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33. The need to share with other what's going on with us is part of our nature

Mon Dec 26, 2011, 09:55 PM

Dec 2011

There are some who can "suffer in silence" but most of us need to share what's going on with us with others. Not necessarily for the purpose of complaining or looking for sympathy, but just to get it out, to give it voice, in much the same way we need to share our good news.

So I say, Cali, THANK YOU for sharing with us! For trusting us with that part of yourself that is suffering, and giving us the opportunity to say something like "That's okay, Cali, you're still one of us, we know an understand what you are talking about and we're with you in this".

You've shared with us the expression of your vulnerability and that makes you more real to those of us who read your words share something similar to what you are experiencing. You've given us an opportunity to feel and express our our sense of compassion, and that is a true gift.

Blessings to you, Cali, and all here who suffer with pain or some other condition. We all need each other.

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Chronic Pain. [View all] cali Dec 2011 OP

Frustrating yes Pharaoh Dec 2011 #1

they know. I'm in PT cali Dec 2011 #18

Stick it out and be patient with yourself. MedicalAdmin Dec 2011 #23

I feel your pain Pharaoh Dec 2011 #25

you most certainly have my moral support cali Dec 2011 #29

Hang in there... cyberswede Dec 2011 #2

If you can, get some physical therapy. You need to rebuild those muscles without causing further hedgehog Dec 2011 #3

I'm in intense PT, including aqua therapy cali Dec 2011 #19

Good for you! Here's hoping for some good results quickly! hedgehog Dec 2011 #21

The only thing that stopped my own pain --- elfin Dec 2011 #4

I've has PT twice - once for a badly sprained ankle and once for a badly sprained back. hedgehog Dec 2011 #6

Understand Your Pain grilled onions Dec 2011 #5

Brilliant analysis. MedicalAdmin Dec 2011 #24

I am so very sorry to read that. It's really OK Mira Dec 2011 #7

You are not a whiner. But I know how you feel. kdmorris Dec 2011 #8

You are not a whiner Irishonly Dec 2011 #9

I didn't mean to poh-pooh your pain, just suggest some alternatives you can try. hedgehog Dec 2011 #10

Last year I had shoulder surgery. TNDemo Dec 2011 #11

No you are not a whiner nadinbrzezinski Dec 2011 #12

thanks nadine cali Dec 2011 #20

Hugs nadinbrzezinski Dec 2011 #22

That is a lot to deal with libodem Dec 2011 #13

This just occurred to me - if you can get some PT, you can hedgehog Dec 2011 #14

Hugs, Cali. They're tough words to write. ncrainbowgrrl Dec 2011 #15

This message was self-deleted by its author Obamanaut Dec 2011 #16

I've been reading about tart cherry juice TBA Dec 2011 #17

there are many of us that suffer in pain daily demtenjeep Dec 2011 #26

What a great thread you got going, Cali! ITA with the others -- it's NOT whining! tpsbmam Dec 2011 #27

thank you! cali Dec 2011 #28

I'm the same way with all meds that have the potential for addiction/dependency tpsbmam Dec 2011 #31

Your remark that the pain came from nerve damage made me wonder if you should see a neurologist. Vinca Dec 2011 #30

Complaining Is OK ProfessorGAC Dec 2011 #32

The need to share with other what's going on with us is part of our nature housewolf Dec 2011 #33

You're not a whiner. You hurt, there is a reason for you to hurt, and you still want Warpy Jan 2012 #34