I probably have breast cancer (again)

[TreasonousBastard]

1. Vent, vent, vent... I lost a father and stepfather to cancer and my mother and brother have...

had their scares.

Yes, too often when you have dealt with the realities of the disease, you then have to deal with all those "helpful" friends and relatives and the fragility of those closest to you.

Stay strong. Once you get the medical help, perhaps some help for your husband to deal with this.

When death's shadow appears, it is the survivors who often suffer most.