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pangaia

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6. You are very welcome.
Sat Feb 8, 2014, 12:54 AM
Feb 2014

Sounds like you are doing well having a 'buddy.' That is REALLY GREAT!
I found something similar through the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society.
Here are some contacts for them They were very helpful to me.

http://www.lls.org/
:: Beatrice Abetti, LCSW | Information Specialist, Information Resource Center

:: The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society | 1311 Mamaroneck Avenue, White
Plains NY, 10605
:: P: 914.821.8923 | F: 914.821.3723 | www.lls.org | abettib@lls.org

:: Information Resource Center: 1-800-955-4572


I just read the info at the Lymphoma research Foundation about angioimmunoblastic TCell non Hodgkin's lymphoma. It does look like your type and stage of the disease is more difficult to 'cure' than mine. So what. That's what I would say to it.

One of my 'buddies' with whom I talked in 2012 had had stage 4 diffuse large b cell lymphoma about 12-15 years ago, when the treatment was not as good even as now. He had it all over, stage 4, cancerous nodes everywhere, cancer in his brain, etc.. He's doing fine.
So I think first, a positive attitude is really important (easy for me to say, I know). to not become 'attached' to it. If you can't beat it, you can't, so why worry. And if you can, you can, so ....why worry.

One thing having cancer did for me was to 'slow' my life down. And in slowing it down, I have more time.... Like a baseball player--It has been said that the most difficult thing to do in sports is to hit a baseball. If a batter can slow the game down, the ball looks like a huge beach ball slowly floating in toward him, instead of coming in at 95mph. He has forever to pick it up leaving the pitcher's hand, forever to pick up the spin so he knows what kind of pitch it is-fastball, curve, slider, change-up - forever to decide to swing or not, and forever to swing. Instead of having 4/10ths of a second to do all those things, he has hours! So my life has become longer than before.

The cancer center where you are going should DEFINITELY give you info on local support groups.

One thing, don't go Googling 'cancer,' or whatever. When I first did a search for my spinal tumor it really freaked me out. Big mistake. Somewhere it said I had like 6 months, tops. Don't read that stuff.. Although, the Lymphoma research Society info looks fairly good.

I don't know where you are, the quality of cancer treatment there, etc. But, the more experienced doctors you can get the better. I was lucky as mine were top notch. In fact some of the info on the LLS website was written by Jonathan W. Friedberg, MD and Lynn Rich, MS, NP. who are at Strong Hospital. Lynn, in fact, did my bone marrow biopsy. (BTW- I also had 4 lumbar punctures. Just in case you have to have one--they give you lidocaine so not bad at all.)

And take my comment about junk food with a grain of salt.
Having Leukemia and going through chemo means you want to do everything you can to strengthen your immune system. Lots of veggies, a probiotic is good. Don't trust doctors to know much about diet.

OK.. enough for now, Don't want to tire you brain. :&gt

Keep in touch and eat lots of spinach...

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Hang in there. Locate a support group and attend a couple of meetings. I didn't sinkingfeeling Feb 2014 #1
Do you have a nurse navigator? Ruby the Liberal Feb 2014 #2
Thank you KaryninMiami Feb 2014 #5
I also had a person called a patient advocate/coordinator who mapped out Nay Feb 2014 #7
Mine was through the cancer center at the hospital Ruby the Liberal Feb 2014 #8
Hi Karynin, pangaia Feb 2014 #3
Thanks for your advice! KaryninMiami Feb 2014 #4
You are very welcome. pangaia Feb 2014 #6
I have to second pangaia Ruby the Liberal Feb 2014 #9
I will only echo that the LLS group has been a wonderful source of support ... slipslidingaway Feb 2014 #11
Thanks so much-greatly appreciate your support! KaryninMiami Feb 2014 #13
We all need to support one another ... slipslidingaway Feb 2014 #15
I don't have any tips, just suport. 2theleft Feb 2014 #10
Thanks so very much for your lovely words and support KaryninMiami Feb 2014 #12
Quick update from Lymphoma -Limboland KaryninMiami Feb 2014 #14
Better to make sure of the diagnosis ... slipslidingaway Feb 2014 #16
A vanishing fluke ! KaryninMiami Feb 2014 #19
Reading your update, you have some tough times ahead ... slipslidingaway Feb 2014 #24
I'll take this as a good sign Ruby the Liberal Feb 2014 #17
I sure hope so KaryninMiami Feb 2014 #18
Verdict is in- original diagnosis was correct. Chemo Starts Monday. KaryninMiami Feb 2014 #20
Hi there karynin.. pangaia Feb 2014 #21
Thanks for making me smile KaryninMiami Feb 2014 #22
Well I just realized I should call you Karyn.. DUH!!!! pangaia Feb 2014 #23
First round of chemo done KaryninMiami Feb 2014 #25
Great to hear the first session went well. pangaia Feb 2014 #26
New adventure every day KaryninMiami Feb 2014 #27
Have you considered a hair "halo" that can be worn under hats? deurbano Mar 2014 #28
Thanks very much- will look into it. KaryninMiami Mar 2014 #30
Hi Karyn, pangaia Mar 2014 #29
Symptoms subsided thank goodness KaryninMiami Mar 2014 #31
Hi Karyn, pangaia Mar 2014 #32
1 more to go in this round - however KaryninMiami Mar 2014 #33
Hair and blood cells pangaia Mar 2014 #34
Halfway thru chemo - yay! KaryninMiami Apr 2014 #35
Keeping you in thoughts! Ruby the Liberal Apr 2014 #36
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers maddezmom Apr 2014 #37
Just checking in... 2theleft May 2014 #38
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