How to be a victim of transphobia without being trans or anything?

[Dear_Prudence]

3. My trivial concern

The story is horrifying and I feel for that child. My trivial concern is various legislative efforts to ban people from using the "wrong" bathroom. When the rest rooms are single, the womens' room is tied up, and the mens' room is empty, I have felt that, in urgent circumstances, a woman should be able to duck into the mens' room. I may have to become a conscient objector.