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True Dough

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3. Was this in English or French?
Sun Jun 7, 2026, 07:50 PM
Sunday

If the speakers were Anglais, could you have countered with your linguistic skills? And when they said, "Sorry, we don't understand French," you could have replied, "About as much as I understand about quantum theory."

If that didn't apply on this occasion, I have nothing witty to add. But I do think it's less than thoughtful to carry on a conversation that one or more members of a dinner party is incapable of following, at least for more than a few minutes.

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Etiquette question - [View all] Mme. Defarge Sunday OP
After dinner brandy-and-cigars? no_hypocrisy Sunday #1
During the meal. Mme. Defarge Sunday #2
Was this in English or French? True Dough Sunday #3
Great advice! Mme. Defarge Sunday #4
A Subject I Would Never Bring Up ProfessorGAC Sunday #5
I'm sure it was meant to impress Mme. Defarge Sunday #6
Highly Likely ProfessorGAC Sunday #7
Formidable Mme. Defarge Sunday #9
"how appropriate is it?".... anciano Sunday #8
Merci! Mme. Defarge Sunday #10
I always thought people who bring up things like that were odins folly Sunday #11
Ah, mockery - Mme. Defarge Sunday #12
Inconsiderate, unless they were willing and able wnylib Sunday #13
Wanting to impress someone Mme. Defarge Sunday #14
"Inappropriate?" perhaps, indeed, "rude" is the better word. malthaussen 17 hrs ago #15
Actually, Mme. Defarge 16 hrs ago #16
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