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lonely bird

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Tue Mar 3, 2026, 07:48 PM Mar 3

Asking for some good vibes and prayers [View all]

Mrs. Bird has gone through a long stretch of pain. She had adult scoliosis correction in February of 2023. About a year later she had pain going down her right leg to her foot. We saw the doctor who did the surgery and after x-rays determined that the rods and screws (32 screws and 4 rods) were where they supposed to be. Suggested she see the pain doctor. So, we did. She had several injections some of which provided a bit of relief and some which didn’t. Pain and weakness became worse which necessitated going from a walking stick to a walker.

Our CNP suggested going outside our normal hospital/medical group to get fresh eyes on the problem. So we made an appointment. New spine doc took extensive history and asked many questions. He ordered an x-ray. When we saw it he noted that the scoliosis correction had been done very well. The back isn’t the problem. She needs a new hip. Surgery is scheduled for March 13. Basically, the ball has collapsed and is almost square shaped.

My wife has had a history of back issues that started with a blown out disc due to sneezing. After the micro lumbar discectomy in about 1987 or so she needed spinal decompression in 2016. One nerve was so flattened going through the vertebra that the sheaf was tearing. Within the next two weeks of that surgery she had two infections (one was staph) that required going back in to clean them out. That caused her scoliosis to really go nuts.

What she wants out of this is just to be able to walk without pain.

Thanks for listening.

Lonely Bird

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Best of luck with your situation. OAITW r.2.0 Mar 3 #1
Healing vibes head to your wife Lifeafter70 Mar 3 #2
Healing vibes on the way SheltieLover Mar 3 #3
And from me! ++++++++ spooky3 Mar 3 #11
... SheltieLover Mar 3 #12
Yuk SuzyandPuffpuff Mar 3 #4
Sending my best thoughts UpInArms Mar 3 #5
My best wishes to Mrs. Bird, and to you as well. LuckyCharms Mar 3 #6
Your wife has done everything to relieve this pain and as extensive as hip surgery is, I hope it's the answer Deuxcents Mar 3 #7
Sending strength and healing democrank Mar 3 #8
Sending healing vibes to your wife, lonely bird. sheshe2 Mar 3 #9
Peace, strength, and rest wishes for you. quaint Mar 3 #10
She has endured so much already jmbar2 Mar 3 #13
Sending good lounge vibes! Phentex Mar 3 #14
Sending... 2naSalit Mar 3 #15
From personal experience, collapsed hip repair was a piece of cake...though I did not have the other issues. joanbarnes Mar 3 #16
Holding you and Mrs. Bird in light and love. Vibes for swift and niyad Mar 3 #17
I will add both of you to my prayer list.lonely bird. debm55 Mar 3 #18
Best wishes IbogaProject Mar 3 #19
May good vibes stage left Mar 3 #20
Hip surgery has advanced a LOT in the past few years. My wife had it done yesterday, and was walking later in the day. SeattleVet Mar 3 #21
YES!! It's not the big scary ordeal one would think it is!! Leghorn21 Mar 3 #27
Aw, man! I'm so sorry to hear what you two are going through! calimary Mar 3 #22
Wishing Mrs Bird and you all the best. badhair77 Mar 3 #23
Sending good vibes sdfernando Mar 3 #24
Pain is hell, I'm sorry she's going through this. cate94 Mar 3 #25
Dear Bird!!!!! My brother has two great friends who both had their hips replaced after years of misery!!! Leghorn21 Mar 3 #26
""" AllaN01Bear Mar 3 #28
Good vibes and best wishes! Whyisthisstillclose Mar 3 #29
oh my Skittles Mar 3 #30
Sending healing vibes to Mrs. Bird. virgdem Mar 3 #31
Prayers and best wishes for both of you JohnnyLib2 Mar 3 #32
Sending best wishes and healing vibes for your wife from the great state of Michigan. MIButterfly Mar 3 #33
Chronic pain sucks! All the best for your wife irisblue Mar 3 #34
Praying for an excellent outcome for Mrs. Bird Tanuki Mar 3 #35
I am so sorry. I hope her pain-free days come very soon. LoisB Mar 3 #36
Sending good vibes, lonely bird! senseandsensibility Mar 3 #37
Sending vibes for your wife and a hug for you MustLoveBeagles Mar 3 #38
Praying that Mrs. Bird flies through this surgery and walks with no discomfort. hamsterjill Mar 3 #39
My struggles pale in comparison. All I know is that BootinUp Mar 3 #40
Praying for you and Mrs. Bird JMCKUSICK Mar 3 #41
Healing vibes and prayers for her, and hugs for both of you. highplainsdem Mar 3 #42
Healing vibes to your beloved wife... 3catwoman3 Mar 3 #43
Glad to hear that the back is no longer the problem. I've had live love laugh Mar 3 #44
You know, it's almost as hard on Tesha Mar 4 #45
Peace, Healing, Renewal, Joy Donkees Mar 4 #46
Everybody... lonely bird Mar 4 #47
💐🫶🏽 blm Mar 4 #48
Holding you and your wife in my heart for healing and wholeness. Pain is a difficult challenge indeed. n/t TygrBright Mar 4 #49
Empathy and healing energies going out to your wife... slightlv Mar 4 #50
My thoughts and prayers to you as well lonely bird Monday #60
Sending Emerald Green Healing Light to surround your wife. Bread and Circuses Mar 4 #51
I am sending them right now! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Mar 4 #52
Best wishes . . . otchmoson Mar 4 #53
All the best to your wife. PittBlue Mar 4 #54
Healing 💚Love ❤️ Light 💛 to Mrs Bird. Comfort 🧡 to you lonely bird Clouds Passing Mar 4 #55
Healing wishes FemDemERA Monday #56
Good vibes and prayers coming her way KS Toronado Monday #57
Prayers for Ms. Bird, and also for you. Dorothy V Monday #58
Prayers for both Mrs. bird and you. debm55 Monday #59
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