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Diamond_Dog

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35. My sis is a widow with no children

Reply to Beatlelvr (Original post)

Mon Dec 1, 2025, 10:30 AM

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She is always welcome at my house on Christmas but driving an hour and 45 min. one way in NE Ohio winter weather is not always practical. Two years ago she joined a volunteer group at a church who delivers hot meals to shut-ins on Christmas. They pair you up with someone and give you hot dinners, and a map. The gratitude of the recipients is so overwhelming (in a good way) she told me. Some of the elderly folks lived alone and just needed to see a friendly face.

But I understand this isn’t for everyone. I hope your counselor can help you cope. It’s a stressful time for most people and I wish all the best for you.

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