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Staph

(6,446 posts)
26. I'm one of the genealogy geeks in the family.
Sun Nov 30, 2025, 09:20 PM
Sunday

I can trace my mother's family, name by name, back to Switzerland in the 1500s (though the "glorious history" of the Judy/von Tschudi family goes back to Yost Schudy who was knighted in 870 AD). Her maternal family came over from Germany in the mid-1700s.

My dad's maternal grandparents immigrated from Denmark in the 1880s, but I've got Danish census records going back to the early 1900s. I was named after Dad's Danish grandmother, my great-grandmother. Dad's paternal line came over from England about 1700.

So, yeah, I know a bunch about my grandparents and great-grandparents and so on and so forth. But it saddens me to look at all of those ancestors and realize that those who didn't have kids, the dead end branches like me, disappear.

BTW, we have an annual family reunion each year, with the descendants of my mother's parents. We usually have 50-60 people there - my cousins and sisters, their children and grandchildren. We West Virginians are big on family!


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Sorry; that's a difficult place to be in Chasstev365 Sunday #1
Thank you Beatlelvr Sunday #2
I am widowed and go to my daughter's home for the holidays now Marthe48 Sunday #3
You are right Beatlelvr Sunday #9
Our family gave up on trying to get together once everyone grew up. 1WorldHope Sunday #4
Along those lines... Beatlelvr Sunday #10
I hear you. I'm single with no children and feel Boomerproud Sunday #5
Like your name too! Beatlelvr Sunday #11
71 here, no kids. Staph Sunday #6
Yes, exactly Beatlelvr Sunday #12
We are all forgotten eventually. Do you know the full names of your great grandparents? Scrivener7 Sunday #19
I'm one of the genealogy geeks in the family. Staph Sunday #26
It saddens me that you think of yourself as a "dead end branch." Scrivener7 21 hrs ago #33
Hey Staph, True Dough Sunday #24
I can sure relate... Fyrefox Sunday #7
Thank you for your post Beatlelvr Sunday #14
Considering therapy is always a good idea yobrault1 Sunday #8
Those sound like good ideas. Beatlelvr Sunday #15
Let me take your questions one at a time.... anciano Sunday #13
I'm thankful for DU also! Beatlelvr Sunday #16
I have kids, grandkids, and still feel blue ar holiday time. Bmoboy Sunday #17
My closest family drmeow Sunday #18
I hope you feel better. Maybe you have pets to focus on or start a project. tazcat Sunday #20
I miss being a nurse, I'd work all the holidays and get holiday pay Warpy Sunday #21
I'm alone. But I'm a loner. ... littlemissmartypants Sunday #22
Love you back! Beatlelvr Sunday #28
TY ❤️ littlemissmartypants Yesterday #31
Maybe try this for Christmas AverageOldGuy Sunday #23
Why do you think Americans started making football the center of Thanksgiving? mtngirl47 Sunday #25
Actually, I DO knit and crochet Beatlelvr Sunday #27
Hey--have you watched the new Beatles Anthology on Disney? mtngirl47 Sunday #30
Old, divorced, no kids, I no longer get invited to holiday gatherings Ocelot II Sunday #29
Yes,somewhat similar Calico20 Yesterday #32
Married with no kids, and that would be us if our family lived closer. tanyev 20 hrs ago #34
My sis is a widow with no children Diamond_Dog 18 hrs ago #35
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