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Aristus

(70,527 posts)
19. I'm pretty much an introvert.
Wed Apr 30, 2025, 06:44 PM
Apr 2025

So much so that I was overjoyed the very first time I saw the humorous (but true) meme stating: "Stop telling introverts to come out of their shells and be more sociable! I never hear anyone telling extroverts to be more quiet and reserved."

I'm friendly and outgoing when I'm at work at the clinic. It's an important part of the job, getting patients to open up and to trust me. But that's work, and it's exhausting. I'm cool with going to parties and other social occasions as long as I'm with my wife. She's the extrovert; she carries the weight of the sociability, making it easier for me.

That's why I love socializing online, especially here on DU, among people I trust, and can open up to.

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Very much an introvert. Love to socialize, but oregonjen Apr 2025 #1
It's not really a binary characteristic. surrealAmerican Apr 2025 #2
Big time introvert get the red out Apr 2025 #3
More introverted the older I get SARose Apr 2025 #4
Introvert, but like you, I am sociable and like socializing with others -- especially one on one, but need KPN Apr 2025 #5
We are very similar LogDog75 Apr 2025 #12
Carl Jung said something like: Extroverts get their energy from (being around) other people, Jim__ Apr 2025 #6
Introvert sestina Apr 2025 #7
Introvert.... anciano Apr 2025 #8
I am an introvert to the extreme. I like people, but I hate to deal with them. I find it very draining. Midnight Writer Apr 2025 #9
EXTROVERT ProfessorGAC Apr 2025 #10
No "per" option. Is that intended to exclude many MAGATS, or just an oversight? rzemanfl Apr 2025 #11
Introvert. I'm social with a few people. I'm very comfortable being alone. TommieMommy Apr 2025 #13
I have no problems striking up convos with complete strangers, but I also treasure my alone time. Dorothy V Apr 2025 #14
Introvert Mad_Dem_X Apr 2025 #15
Ambivert (a mix): 2/3 Extrovert, 1/3 Introvert electric_blue68 Apr 2025 #16
Both. Depends on the situation. bif Apr 2025 #17
Extrovert - but love being home alone gardening & making art womanofthehills Apr 2025 #18
I'm pretty much an introvert. Aristus Apr 2025 #19
Dyed in the wool introvert n/t ailsagirl May 2025 #20
Was an extrovert, now an introvert. Clouds Passing May 2025 #21
I'm a hardcore introvert. Small talk actually physically exhausts me. catbyte May 2025 #22
I'm BI zanana1 May 2025 #23
Introvert. n/t area51 May 2025 #24
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