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moonscape

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19. All the best to her. The result my friend has
Mon Apr 21, 2025, 08:14 PM
Apr 2025

endured is uncommon, at least through all our research it never came up and I’ve not run across it since.

Hers was discovered by accident really. I went with her to UCSF (3rd best neurology dept in the country or so it was listed in 2010.). We did lots of research and chose clipping over coil for a number of reasons. Her surgeon was well-known (Sharon Stone’s) and we liked him. Afterwards, when she emerged with dementia, we were told she either had a stroke on the table (no MRI evidence so they said the titanium clip could have been blocking the evidence) or she had a dementia in progress which the surgery accelerated (she was laser sharp before and I dismissed this theory). Both explanations were suspect but hey, they were the best so …

Several years later at a neuro evaluation at Stanford, they said the reason was undoubtedly mechanical due to the complication of accessing the location of her particular aneurysm. Now this was a ‘duh’ moment. UCSF viewed her surgery a success so it would not show up on undesirable outcomes. Success = patient did not die. I like UCSF a lot, believe her surgeon was skilled, and that outcomes are not guaranteed with any surgery particularly such a complex one. But I’m bitter about being lied to and them not even holding something that obvious out as a reason.

Sorry for the tangent. My friend was managing director of a non-profit, lost her job of course, her life turned upside down, friends drifted away due to her dementia. I’ve known her since we were 13, she’s like a sister, and of couse I couldn’t step over a friend in need.

We both rely on Social Security and Medicare. The cruelty of this administration is beyond words.

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they are mean bullies who want us sick and suffering. The pukes really are a pox on humanity Blues Heron Apr 2025 #1
Morally and politically they'd be better off to shrink care than eliminate it bucolic_frolic Apr 2025 #2
Healthy young people rarely visit the doctor. yardwork Apr 2025 #4
well i didn't say that bucolic_frolic Apr 2025 #7
"Able bodied" young adults aren't visiting a PC or ER for minor things. yardwork Apr 2025 #8
The ER is the only place in the USA required to treat people IbogaProject Apr 2025 #15
Healthy young MEN people Hekate Apr 2025 #16
Steroids and anti-worm medicine will save you! travelingthrulife Apr 2025 #24
The protests have been great so far but we will need 24/7 protests in the streets to save Medicare and Medicaid OrlandoDem2 Apr 2025 #3
I believe it will come to that bucolic_frolic Apr 2025 #5
Downsizing for Republicans is to kill off prospective Democratic voters. Historic NY Apr 2025 #6
Conservatism is selfishness. nt Hotler Apr 2025 #9
The big money is in Medicaid Long Term Care exboyfil Apr 2025 #10
I'm terrified for my childhood moonscape Apr 2025 #13
You are an incredible friend.... electric_blue68 Apr 2025 #18
All the best to her. The result my friend has moonscape Apr 2025 #19
Oh, how terrible. 😔 electric_blue68 Apr 2025 #22
Medicaid is based on your income, Bayard Apr 2025 #11
Sounds like they're encouraging hospitals to close. They depend on Medicaid for funding and won't be able Vinca Apr 2025 #12
We have to root out fraud, waste, and abuse? patphil Apr 2025 #14
A lot of those people voted for Chump too FakeNoose Apr 2025 #17
And it will cost all of us Arger68 Apr 2025 #20
Going after Medicaid expansion blm Apr 2025 #21
""We have to root out fraud, waste, and abuse." OldBaldy1701E Apr 2025 #23
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