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35. Moms. Damn. I'm sorry Jackcrow.
Fri Jun 12, 2026, 07:50 PM
21 hrs ago

If it snowed overnight, mine would make breakfast, then go outside, get a handful of snow and squeeze it and squeeze it until her little hands were ice cold. Then she'd sneak in my room and put them on my back.

Then she'd smile ever so sweetly and say, "Breakfast is ready."

A few months later, in the spring, she would walk around the back of the house to find a small green hose coiled up like a snake. My mom had nerves of steel (Navy Airman) and laughed at things that would terrify mortal humans (bungie jumping off a Chinese bridge at ate 75), but she was scared ti death of snakes. Or hoses that looked like snakes.

I was evily cackling in the kitchen, listening to her scream, when the door flew open and she caught me and knew I did it on purpose.

You are going to miss your mom, friend. My only suggestion is when you start to feel blue, think of a time that can only bring a smile to your face. You don't have to wallow in the end, you can relive all the good parts with some effort. Hugs to you.

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My Mother passed away this week. [View all] jackcrow2001 Yesterday OP
condolences markie Yesterday #1
Deepest condolences SheltieLover Yesterday #2
Sorry for you. My mother was also 82 when she passed surfered Yesterday #3
I am so sorry for your loss MIButterfly Yesterday #4
Deepest sympathy to you, your sisters malaise Yesterday #5
Healing vibes for you and your family on the loss of your mother. niyad Yesterday #6
I am so sorry for your loss. It's actually Ilsa Yesterday #7
She sounded like such a grand woman. RIP and I am sorry for your loss. Passages Yesterday #8
May her soul soar! Sending you and your family hugs and condolences. MLAA Yesterday #9
Condolences to You and your Family marked50 Yesterday #10
My deepest condolences to you and your family brer cat Yesterday #11
A profound passing and a moonscape Yesterday #12
She sounds like she was a wonderful person mcar Yesterday #13
Sympathies and prayer for you and yours B.See Yesterday #14
Sorry for your loss, jackcrow2001 senseandsensibility Yesterday #15
Your mom seemed a lot like my own mother. La Coliniere Yesterday #16
I'm so sorry for your loss. StarryNite Yesterday #17
My deepest condolences. sinkingfeeling Yesterday #18
I am so sorry for the loss of your mother Grim Chieftain Yesterday #19
Nothing prepares us. Deep condolences, jackcrow2001. We love you. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Yesterday #20
Condolences, strength to you, and your family electric_blue68 23 hrs ago #21
So sorry for your loss SocialDemocrat61 23 hrs ago #22
My condolences to you and your family... Spazito 23 hrs ago #23
So sorry, jackcrow2001, may the memories of your dear mother be a blessing to you debm55 23 hrs ago #24
I'm so sorry for your loss. yardwork 23 hrs ago #25
Sorry to hear that. Figarosmom 23 hrs ago #26
I am so very sorry. The loss of one's mother is profound and earth shifting. Bumbles 23 hrs ago #27
I'm sorry for your loss. Ocelot II 23 hrs ago #28
The memories of your dear Mother will help get you through this. democrank 23 hrs ago #29
... alwaysinasnit 23 hrs ago #30
Sincerest condolences. nt in2herbs 22 hrs ago #31
mother retiredwelder 22 hrs ago #32
My condolences. Love to you and hers. MerryBlooms 22 hrs ago #33
My condolences. mr715 22 hrs ago #34
Moms. Damn. I'm sorry Jackcrow. Teacher of the Year 21 hrs ago #35
sorry about losing your mom.... peacebuzzard 20 hrs ago #36
She sounds like an interesting mom. My condolences for your loss. chowder66 19 hrs ago #37
I'm sorry cate94 18 hrs ago #38
Very sorry for your loss. GoodRaisin 18 hrs ago #39
I am very sorry for your loss. LoisB 18 hrs ago #40
Bless her. Joinfortmill 17 hrs ago #41
She sounds like a wonderful woman Laurelin 17 hrs ago #42
I'm sorry for your loss. live love laugh 16 hrs ago #43
My condolences. May your mother rest in peace. oasis 16 hrs ago #44
Well, she probably has a great seat Upstairs - from which to watch (and savor) everything! calimary 14 hrs ago #45
I'm sorry for your loss and I'm especially sorry... Trueblue Texan 11 hrs ago #46
Sincere Condolences gademocrat7 9 hrs ago #47
i join onethatcares 9 hrs ago #48
My condolences for your loss. Xavier Breath 9 hrs ago #49
I'm so sorry for your loss. area51 9 hrs ago #50
My family's sincere condolences ❤️ underpants 9 hrs ago #51
My sympathy mdbl 8 hrs ago #52
My condolences. murielm99 7 hrs ago #53
I'm so sorry. Scrivener7 7 hrs ago #54
So sorry your mom didn't outlive the ugly monstrosity. 58Sunliner 2 hrs ago #55
My your mother Rest in Peace and May her Memory be a Blessing. n/t iluvtennis 2 hrs ago #56
So sorry for your loss. MissouriDem47 1 hr ago #57
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