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CousinIT

(12,804 posts)
46. Slightly...
Thu Jun 4, 2026, 09:17 AM
1 hr ago

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I'm just adding a list of resources for caregivers. Choose what's best for you - but you deserve and can ask for help! A big one is the '988' number when you need to talk to someone.

- AARP Caregiving — information, tools, local resources, guides for family caregivers.
- Family Caregiver Alliance (FCA) — education, support programs, state caregiver resource lists.
- Administration for Community Living (ACL) — federal programs, eldercare resources, local aging network (ACL/Area Agencies on Aging).
- Eldercare Locator — national service to find local services (Area Agencies on Aging, respite, counseling).
- National Alliance for Caregiving — research, policy, best practices, employer resources.
- Caregiver Action Network — peer support, practical caregiving guides, condition‑specific resources.
- Alzheimer’s Association — dementia-specific support, 24/7 helpline, local chapters, caregiver education.
- ARCH National Respite Network & Resource Center — respite care info and state respite programs.
- Veterans Affairs Caregiver Support Program (VA) — support, counseling, financial/program benefits for caregivers of veterans.
- Mental health/crisis resources — SAMHSA National Helpline and 988 for crisis support when caregiver mental health is at risk.

How to pick the right one
- For local services/respite: start with Eldercare Locator or your Area Agency on Aging (ACL).
- For disease‑specific support (Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s, stroke): use the disease organization (e.g., Alzheimer’s Association).
- For peer support and practical tips: AARP, Caregiver Action Network, and FCA.
- For veterans: use VA Caregiver Support Program.

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Same thing happened to my spouse in 1986 Farmer-Rick 1 hr ago #44
I lived those days Lifeafter70 12 hrs ago #33
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Being a single parent H2O Man 14 hrs ago #19
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So sorry. paleotn 13 hrs ago #27
We are here for you, V SheltieLover 13 hrs ago #30
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Thanks... slightlv 9 hrs ago #38
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Slightly... CousinIT 1 hr ago #46
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GREAT and VERY TRUE line! Jack Valentino 11 hrs ago #36
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