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haele

(15,610 posts)
74. Trying to shed additional costs.
Sun May 24, 2026, 01:06 AM
9 hrs ago

Not everyone in my household of three generations seems to want to help me do that, though.
Side note, if you know your adult kid has mental issues, don't let them move back in "until they get back on their feet." Because 8 times out of 10, they'll just keep trying to relive the 90's TV version of young adulthood they think they deserved, rather than actually get back on their feet...
On edit, it sounds extremely cruel, but it's been unfair and disruptive to the rest of the family, especially their kids they left you to raise, when the supposedly grown adult tries to explain their expensive self-medicating and shopping therapy away as "none of your business" while their only options is living under your roof or in their car.
One upside, we got an EV last year and disabled spouse has been taking advantage of it doing a couple hours pizza and burrito taxi (deliveries) when he can function. He generally makes about 4 times a week more what he spends to charge, so that's a plus -but his takehome usually averages around $400 a month. I can't imagine what it would cost for someone gig driving an older ICE engine or worse - diesel.
He says he sees a lot of older EVs at the commercial chargers in the mornings after he drops me off at work with UBER and Lyft stickers or light bars.

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I'm doing about the same. Haggard Celine 21 hrs ago #1
The best gift he can give - his absence lame54 21 hrs ago #2
I'm doing okay. QED 20 hrs ago #3
I'm being very conservative. Living on social security. TommieMommy 20 hrs ago #4
Had to dump homeowner's ins. here in FL. Have tried to find a company that sells allegorical oracle 17 hrs ago #48
I'm in FL too. I found an independent insurance agent that sells liability only policies. Good luck 🤞 TommieMommy 16 hrs ago #53
My credit cards were both up to the limit. I had to take money out of my now very meager retirement account. kerry-is-my-prez 17 hrs ago #49
Barely. Iggo 20 hrs ago #5
Awful, but holding on barely Catlady123 20 hrs ago #6
I believe they do. The Madcap 20 hrs ago #9
I guess I'm lucky dcbuckeye 20 hrs ago #7
We are fortunate in that we are doing OK and weathering all of this - for now. Marie Marie 20 hrs ago #8
Because other countries feel that we have made our bed, and they don't want to sleep in it DFW 8 hrs ago #78
I'm an adult grad student funding by a teaching assistantship mr715 20 hrs ago #10
Getting by. I'm retired and don't have a lot of expenses. Ocelot II 20 hrs ago #11
Revolutions are fought by those whose ribs are easily counted. Lars39 20 hrs ago #12
Reminds me of the phrase: littlemissmartypants 19 hrs ago #27
Yes, and so true! Lars39 19 hrs ago #31
We do make decent art, though. Iggo 13 hrs ago #63
Maybe not a coincidence: DFW 7 hrs ago #79
❤️ littlemissmartypants 6 hrs ago #80
Except for the Faux pas 20 hrs ago #13
A fictional character in a book I once read had an interesting observation DFW 20 hrs ago #14
Id love to know what character in which book, DFW. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 19 hrs ago #26
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The book was fascinating! But beware..... DFW 1 hr ago #83
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This bit of escapism is worth the exception DFW 1 hr ago #88
Deal! 🌞 littlemissmartypants 29 min ago #91
73% seems high... RPM 12 hrs ago #70
My income is all US sourced DFW 9 hrs ago #73
About the same as you... MiHale 20 hrs ago #15
Living paycheck to paycheck. Social security checks. Maxed out credit cards. Trueblue1968 20 hrs ago #16
We aren't driving anywhere and we don't eat out Ritabert 19 hrs ago #17
The worst ForgedCrank 19 hrs ago #18
Housing relogic 19 hrs ago #19
well said Skittles 18 hrs ago #36
We rarely go out to dinner anymore - just too expensive and not all that good. waterwatcher123 16 hrs ago #56
That sounds wonderful! Love curries and Indian vegetarian food biophile 15 hrs ago #58
I hesitate to complain senseandsensibility 19 hrs ago #20
I'm doing OK. Retired, but SSI covers all of my monthly expenses. OAITW r.2.0 19 hrs ago #21
We're doing okay. We're people of modest means with modest taste. I'm sure glad my husband is still Vinca 19 hrs ago #22
I've reached my goals. multigraincracker 19 hrs ago #23
I'm very upset about property taxes, atm. littlemissmartypants 19 hrs ago #24
My sister and her husband live in New Jersey DFW 1 hr ago #87
Cutting back Maninacan 19 hrs ago #25
Grocery prices are going up to the point even snacks are too expensive sakabatou 19 hrs ago #28
We are doing fine edhopper 19 hrs ago #29
Okay so far, but being mindful about expenses and spending choices. n/t TygrBright 19 hrs ago #30
Pet food. hamsterjill 19 hrs ago #32
Wyoming is doing OK bernieb 19 hrs ago #33
what is the deal with Spectrum Skittles 19 hrs ago #34
I pay $15 a month for Spectrum internet Kaleva 1 hr ago #86
I'm Okay BeneteauBum 19 hrs ago #35
It's a little tight, but not unbearably.... lastlib 18 hrs ago #37
Check out the price on Part D now and then, just in case. nilram 9 hrs ago #75
I retired nearly 9 yrs ago. I did all of the shopping for two then and now and pay all bills. twodogsbarking 18 hrs ago #38
Trump has successfully LilElf70 18 hrs ago #39
I'm feeling it IbogaProject 18 hrs ago #40
We're doing okay Grim Chieftain 18 hrs ago #41
Yeah, that's a structural economic cost for me, too. OAITW r.2.0 14 hrs ago #59
Cheers, friend! Grim Chieftain 14 hrs ago #60
We're doing okay so far MustLoveBeagles 18 hrs ago #42
Expenses are up... but flat WarGamer 18 hrs ago #43
If it weren't for my few credit cards, we'd be out on the street by now. slightlv 18 hrs ago #44
I'm terrified... Scully 18 hrs ago #45
Every time I do something on-line I feel like a mark perdita9 18 hrs ago #46
Doing without a lot of day-to-day stuff -- have cut back on driving, eating, allegorical oracle 17 hrs ago #47
I'm retired for about 10 years now, and doing okay, probably because GoodRaisin 17 hrs ago #50
By the skin of my teeth... buzzycrumbhunger 17 hrs ago #51
Retired for 12 years and still doing OK with income Progressive dog 17 hrs ago #52
I am very "lucky" usedtobedemgurl 16 hrs ago #54
I've heard of that, even seen online ads nilram 9 hrs ago #76
I have been doing it for nearly 40 years. usedtobedemgurl 1 hr ago #82
I can't complain, I have been retired for 16 years. I am fortunate to have one doc03 16 hrs ago #55
I'm retired (10 years) and fortunate to get by on Golden Raisin 15 hrs ago #57
I'm Okay but I do see prices increasing LogDog75 13 hrs ago #61
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Look at you using new vocabulary! choie 13 hrs ago #62
Vocabulary? LuckyCharms 13 hrs ago #64
I'm likely doing better financially than most AZProgressive 13 hrs ago #65
Ihave Spectrum and recently bundled cable, cellphone, and internet LogDog75 13 hrs ago #66
Mom and I sold our house, so better than it has been in a long time mvd 13 hrs ago #67
We're doing fine but I save less per month than I use to Tree Lady 10 hrs ago #72
Trying to shed additional costs. haele 9 hrs ago #74
We're Doing Fine DET 8 hrs ago #77
I had to go back to work part time back when Biden was president Kaleva 1 hr ago #84
I can absorb most but I am starting to feel a crimp. And I am adjusting. boston bean 58 min ago #89
You can likely lower your Spectrum bill... VTderry 45 min ago #90
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