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Easterncedar

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14. Oh yeah. Drives me mad. No one donates. Gave and given are vanishing
Sat May 23, 2026, 11:19 PM
11 hrs ago

Is it that irregular verbs confuse people?

I have come to accept that people can't keep affect and effect straight, so no one is affected, we are impacted instead, which always sounds quite uncomfortable to me.

We have forever lost the distinction between jealous and envious, and, heaven help us, the difference between disinterested and uninterested, which seems like a sad loss of a valuable concept. As they say, you better hope you get a disinterested judge in your trial, not an uninterested one.

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Twitter brain... SheltieLover 13 hrs ago #1
Hmm I remember Bush always said just "nuclear" choie 13 hrs ago #3
120 char communications destroy neural networks SheltieLover 13 hrs ago #5
Curiously, Jimmy Carter, a U.S. Navy nuclear engineer pronounced it the same way Brother Buzz 13 hrs ago #6
Another one The Blue Flower 13 hrs ago #2
YES!!! choie 13 hrs ago #4
And "Oval" instead of "Oval Office." wnylib 11 hrs ago #15
Cyber works really well as a noun LearnedHand 10 hrs ago #20
As in "Baron knows the cyber" Disaffected 9 hrs ago #22
People no longer canetoad 12 hrs ago #7
Lord, that's right! choie 12 hrs ago #8
Oh yeah. Drives me mad. No one donates. Gave and given are vanishing Easterncedar 11 hrs ago #14
Gifting or gifting grinds my gears nt róisín_dubh 8 hrs ago #25
Mine too canetoad 8 hrs ago #27
Like you said, it's grammar. I've had some experiance in the South and noticed a long time ago that folks shortened..... FadedMullet 12 hrs ago #9
Yep, that's one! Easterncedar 12 hrs ago #13
Very common in Appalachia róisín_dubh 8 hrs ago #26
Agree With You :: I Do (!) wyn borkins 12 hrs ago #10
Thanks wyn! choie 12 hrs ago #11
Yes, it seems to be an accelerating trend Easterncedar 12 hrs ago #12
You want to go with? radical noodle 11 hrs ago #16
I noticed that while watching the Darral Brooks trial. I thought it was a Wisconsin LoisB 11 hrs ago #18
It's also an Illinois thing. 3catwoman3 6 hrs ago #31
I think it's started in the last few years and not just in Wisconsin radical noodle 14 min ago #36
This isn't new. It's a function of how English is spoken by people in areas where there were a lot of settlers who spoke WhiskeyGrinder 2 hrs ago #35
Really? radical noodle 13 min ago #37
I agree. You are not being intolerant. It seems as if everything is shorthand LoisB 11 hrs ago #17
Language is very fluid and fast moving LearnedHand 11 hrs ago #19
This! Sometimes I love playing with language and B.See 6 hrs ago #30
Oh dear - language changes. How painful. nt GenThePerservering 10 hrs ago #21
And ya, like I mean, your know, Disaffected 9 hrs ago #23
One reason I enjoy listening to BBC World Service and Al Jazeera Disaffected 9 hrs ago #24
I've noticed that, too. calimary 8 hrs ago #28
I've actually come to enjoy many of the shortenings mentioned here EverHopeful 8 hrs ago #29
I detest impactful. Clunky and awkward. 3catwoman3 6 hrs ago #32
"Impactful" is not very graceful but "influential" is definitely not a substitute LearnedHand 9 min ago #38
Leaving important words out leads sdfernando 5 hrs ago #33
The worst, to me, is calling a conspiracy theory a conspiracy. That's become all too common. n/t Mister Ed 5 hrs ago #34
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