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usedtobedemgurl

(2,073 posts)
54. I am very "lucky"
Sat May 23, 2026, 05:56 PM
21 hrs ago

That I was in a car accident. The settlement allowed me to pay off the house. I have a hybrid. If I want to go out to eat, I mystery shop. Last week I was able to take my adult son go a bar/restaurant mystery shop that reimbursed up to $200! I get cc points and I am reimbursed. The high end shops are few and far apart.

Last week I took my car into the shop for an oil change. Again, it was a shop, so free. Two days ago I did a car wash shop. I will be fully reimbursed and paid $20 for doing it. Next week I eat at a lo all IHOP for free. The week after, I will eat at two different burger joints and get reimbursed and paid. I usually do burger joints for the cash and hand the food off to my son, after I taste it for the report. My husband recently passed. I have done postal shops so I can send some items to his mom. Yesterday, I did trailer checks and watched a movie for free. The trailer checks are just going to the theater and reporting on the reaction of the audience to the trailers. Simple. You are supposed to leave after finishing the required checks, but the manager has become familiar with me. He gives me free popcorn and let's me stay for the movie I am doing checks for. Sometimes I need a new shirt or pants. That's when I do Goodwill shops. I get $5 to spend, and I get paid on top of that. If I want energy drinks, I do a gas station shop. I come home with two energy drinks. I get paid to eat at the restaurant on premises - in the restaurant, and I have to do the drive through, so I get breakfast for the next day. I also get paid on top of that. My favorite is a steakhouse. I get a steak and drink reimbursed and get paid. And if I want to get groceries, there are mystery shops for two different chains in my area. It only covers a very small order, but you also get paid on top of that.

You will not get rich mystery shopping, but it can help enrich your life a little and take the edge off of your bills.

I also shop on seniors day at a local grocery store. That gives mean e,tra 5% off, which is no e when added with sales and possibly a mystery shop.

I look for sales on anything and everything.

I also have been selling things. When I moved in, my hubby did not want to get rid of much. After he passed, my adult son moved in. He brought all of his stuff. To say it is crowded is an understatement. My husband had around 4,000 books! With my double vision (refer back to the accident I was "lucky" enough to have), I can not read books. So, I am slowly selling the books and a lot of other things. I do not sell the things for a lot, but every little bit helps, right?

I also bought protein powder on sale. It is a good meal substitute for me. It is convenient because with my accident, it is sometimes hard to make meals through the pain.

So, there are a few of the ways I am getting through these hard times.

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I'm doing about the same. Haggard Celine Yesterday #1
The best gift he can give - his absence lame54 Yesterday #2
I'm doing okay. QED Yesterday #3
I'm being very conservative. Living on social security. TommieMommy Yesterday #4
Had to dump homeowner's ins. here in FL. Have tried to find a company that sells allegorical oracle 22 hrs ago #48
I'm in FL too. I found an independent insurance agent that sells liability only policies. Good luck 🤞 TommieMommy 21 hrs ago #53
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Barely. Iggo Yesterday #5
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I believe they do. The Madcap Yesterday #9
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I'm an adult grad student funding by a teaching assistantship mr715 Yesterday #10
Getting by. I'm retired and don't have a lot of expenses. Ocelot II Yesterday #11
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Reminds me of the phrase: littlemissmartypants 23 hrs ago #27
Yes, and so true! Lars39 23 hrs ago #31
We do make decent art, though. Iggo 18 hrs ago #63
Maybe not a coincidence: DFW 11 hrs ago #79
❤️ littlemissmartypants 11 hrs ago #80
Except for the Faux pas Yesterday #13
A fictional character in a book I once read had an interesting observation DFW Yesterday #14
Id love to know what character in which book, DFW. ❤️ littlemissmartypants 23 hrs ago #26
The book was called "Shibumi" DFW 15 hrs ago #71
Looks interesting! littlemissmartypants 11 hrs ago #81
The book was fascinating! But beware..... DFW 5 hrs ago #83
I don't read much fiction, but for this, I'll make an exception. littlemissmartypants 5 hrs ago #85
This bit of escapism is worth the exception DFW 5 hrs ago #88
Deal! 🌞 littlemissmartypants 4 hrs ago #91
73% seems high... RPM 16 hrs ago #70
My income is all US sourced DFW 14 hrs ago #73
About the same as you... MiHale Yesterday #15
Living paycheck to paycheck. Social security checks. Maxed out credit cards. Trueblue1968 Yesterday #16
We aren't driving anywhere and we don't eat out Ritabert Yesterday #17
The worst ForgedCrank Yesterday #18
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well said Skittles 23 hrs ago #36
We rarely go out to dinner anymore - just too expensive and not all that good. waterwatcher123 20 hrs ago #56
That sounds wonderful! Love curries and Indian vegetarian food biophile 19 hrs ago #58
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I'm doing OK. Retired, but SSI covers all of my monthly expenses. OAITW r.2.0 Yesterday #21
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I've reached my goals. multigraincracker Yesterday #23
I'm very upset about property taxes, atm. littlemissmartypants 23 hrs ago #24
My sister and her husband live in New Jersey DFW 5 hrs ago #87
Cutting back Maninacan 23 hrs ago #25
Grocery prices are going up to the point even snacks are too expensive sakabatou 23 hrs ago #28
We are doing fine edhopper 23 hrs ago #29
Okay so far, but being mindful about expenses and spending choices. n/t TygrBright 23 hrs ago #30
Pet food. hamsterjill 23 hrs ago #32
Wyoming is doing OK bernieb 23 hrs ago #33
what is the deal with Spectrum Skittles 23 hrs ago #34
I pay $15 a month for Spectrum internet Kaleva 5 hrs ago #86
I'm Okay BeneteauBum 23 hrs ago #35
It's a little tight, but not unbearably.... lastlib 23 hrs ago #37
Check out the price on Part D now and then, just in case. nilram 13 hrs ago #75
I retired nearly 9 yrs ago. I did all of the shopping for two then and now and pay all bills. twodogsbarking 23 hrs ago #38
Trump has successfully LilElf70 23 hrs ago #39
I'm feeling it IbogaProject 23 hrs ago #40
We're doing okay Grim Chieftain 23 hrs ago #41
Yeah, that's a structural economic cost for me, too. OAITW r.2.0 18 hrs ago #59
Cheers, friend! Grim Chieftain 18 hrs ago #60
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Expenses are up... but flat WarGamer 22 hrs ago #43
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I'm terrified... Scully 22 hrs ago #45
Every time I do something on-line I feel like a mark perdita9 22 hrs ago #46
Doing without a lot of day-to-day stuff -- have cut back on driving, eating, allegorical oracle 22 hrs ago #47
I'm retired for about 10 years now, and doing okay, probably because GoodRaisin 22 hrs ago #50
By the skin of my teeth... buzzycrumbhunger 22 hrs ago #51
Retired for 12 years and still doing OK with income Progressive dog 21 hrs ago #52
I am very "lucky" usedtobedemgurl 21 hrs ago #54
I've heard of that, even seen online ads nilram 13 hrs ago #76
I have been doing it for nearly 40 years. usedtobedemgurl 6 hrs ago #82
Thanks! nilram 3 hrs ago #92
I can't complain, I have been retired for 16 years. I am fortunate to have one doc03 20 hrs ago #55
I'm retired (10 years) and fortunate to get by on Golden Raisin 20 hrs ago #57
I'm Okay but I do see prices increasing LogDog75 18 hrs ago #61
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This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles 17 hrs ago #69
Look at you using new vocabulary! choie 18 hrs ago #62
Vocabulary? LuckyCharms 18 hrs ago #64
"Groceries." Iggo 1 hr ago #93
I'm likely doing better financially than most AZProgressive 17 hrs ago #65
Ihave Spectrum and recently bundled cable, cellphone, and internet LogDog75 17 hrs ago #66
Mom and I sold our house, so better than it has been in a long time mvd 17 hrs ago #67
We're doing fine but I save less per month than I use to Tree Lady 15 hrs ago #72
Trying to shed additional costs. haele 14 hrs ago #74
We're Doing Fine DET 12 hrs ago #77
I had to go back to work part time back when Biden was president Kaleva 5 hrs ago #84
I can absorb most but I am starting to feel a crimp. And I am adjusting. boston bean 5 hrs ago #89
You can likely lower your Spectrum bill... VTderry 5 hrs ago #90
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