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In reply to the discussion: Some Friends, Eh. [View all]

PatSeg

(53,503 posts)
12. Whoa, that was brutal
Fri May 15, 2026, 05:24 PM
11 hrs ago

I was a long time smoker and I have COPD. Everyone has vices or addictions. What makes some total strangers on the Internet think they can pass judgment on people they don't know?

Of course, I was raised at a time when almost everyone I knew smoked and there was little or no concern about health risks aside from an occasional nagging cough. Some doctors even recommended smoking to calm nerves or to lose weight.

Social media has allowed me to keep in touch with old friends and family. We share photos, life events, and memories, but there are people who go online without a filter and cut down people they don't know. It is unsettling and can even be dangerous. The lack of sensitivity and accountability is stunning. It is hard to imagine what could cause such mindless cruelty.

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3 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

Some Friends, Eh. [View all] MineralMan 13 hrs ago OP
Jeez. underpants 13 hrs ago #1
I wish for your healing Keepthesoulalive 13 hrs ago #2
I am sorry. I will never understand the lack of empathy in so many people. LoisB 12 hrs ago #3
Not helpful, just mean... some_of_us_are_sane 12 hrs ago #4
Sorry that happened to you, MineralMan. HeartsCanHope 11 hrs ago #5
Feel better. mr715 11 hrs ago #6
If you don't have personal FTF contact with them they could be bots. littlemissmartypants 11 hrs ago #7
those kind of people can seriously go fuck themselves Skittles 11 hrs ago #8
COPD . . . AverageOldGuy 11 hrs ago #9
may I say, AOG Skittles 10 hrs ago #23
Whatever filthy habit you have, or don't have, you are one of my favorite posters on D.U. I always save a 3Hotdogs 11 hrs ago #10
Breathe well. cachukis 11 hrs ago #11
Whoa, that was brutal PatSeg 11 hrs ago #12
Nextdoor? FHRRK1 11 hrs ago #13
omg Skittles 10 hrs ago #24
And they really are neighbors FHRRK1 8 hrs ago #30
Projection nuxvomica 11 hrs ago #14
Wow, I am so sorry EuterpeThelo 11 hrs ago #15
Could you imagine KT2000 10 hrs ago #16
I was thinking that about the local "Karen" I am frequently mistaken for Skittles 10 hrs ago #25
Explains a lot of where this country is today BaronChocula 10 hrs ago #17
I really hope you unfriend those people. And I wish you health and healing. Maraya1969 10 hrs ago #18
The cloak of anonymity gives people cover to be judgmental without TheProle 10 hrs ago #19
Glad to have you back with us, MM... Totally Tunsie 10 hrs ago #20
Oh, dear MineralMan Grim Chieftain 10 hrs ago #21
Sounds like some of trolls MIRT deals with daily. hunter 10 hrs ago #22
so sorry... markie 9 hrs ago #26
That is absolutely outrageous! I'd beat 'em up for you if I could. nt CozyMystery 9 hrs ago #27
Filthy Habits JoseBalow 9 hrs ago #28
Ignore them MustLoveBeagles 8 hrs ago #29
Who does that? peggysue2 8 hrs ago #31
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