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169. Thank you for mentioning training in self defense

Fri Feb 13, 2026, 10:21 PM

Feb 2026

I urge all women of any age to take self defense classes, or better yet, martial arts. It gives you the skills and the confidence to take on anything that happens.

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A man was harassing a woman in the elevator. See what she did.♥️ [View all] riversedge Feb 2026 OP

Good on her! 3catwoman3 Feb 2026 #1

Think? BidenRocks Feb 2026 #52

Sadly true. niyad Feb 2026 #96

Well, yes, there is that. 3catwoman3 Feb 2026 #97

It's all bdamomma Feb 2026 #165

life can be challenging when you think with your dick. and so many of them do nt orleans Feb 2026 #167

I had a biology professor in college that said something like that. WinstonSmith4740 Feb 2026 #190

She beat the crap out of him !!!!!!! Yahooooo Trueblue1968 Feb 2026 #191

Good LetMyPeopleVote Feb 2026 #2

This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Feb 2026 #3

Nah...and he won't report it anyhow. MineralMan Feb 2026 #7

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How was she to know that? I would have been scared to death that he would attack again in that closed space. AnotherMother4Peace Feb 2026 #15

This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Feb 2026 #32

What leads you to assert a momentarily lowered head removes all threat? Torchlight Feb 2026 #34

Are you really going to ask a sexual assault victim BidenRocks Feb 2026 #60

I included an excerpt from the post I responded to Torchlight Feb 2026 #61

Perhaps quotation marks might have avoided confusion. I knew niyad Feb 2026 #92

Bet you that those who are trying to give the assaulter protection are not female. efhmc Feb 2026 #102

Definitely. MorbidButterflyTat Feb 2026 #115

You underestimate the danger she was in ninjanurse Feb 2026 #133

Now is that clearly no longer a threat in your eyes or hers? usedtobedemgurl Feb 2026 #214

Same as emptying a magazine RoseTrellis Feb 2026 #205

Shooting someone is a bit more damaging than a groin kick Attilatheblond Feb 2026 #207

Hoooo boy, some of them, for sure... electric_blue68 Feb 2026 #234

Don't think he'll be pressing charges, but if he does, my money is on her. Joinfortmill Feb 2026 #17

Maybe a little overkill is what he needed. GaYellowDawg Feb 2026 #18

IMO if she stopped short of debilitating him until the doors opened, this story would have a different ending. Hope22 Feb 2026 #220

I am guessing that it must be difficult to be a woman within your circle of niyad Feb 2026 #27

Absolutely! SheltieLover Feb 2026 #49

What would Krusty Gnome have done?? BattleRow Feb 2026 #66

Pulled out her gun? niyad Feb 2026 #98

What man would touch Kristie Gnome? maxrandb Feb 2026 #124

Well, there is at least one. Wednesdays Feb 2026 #131

We can't count her plastic surgeon. :-) nt spooky3 Feb 2026 #175

By all reports: Corey Lewandowski ShazzieB Feb 2026 #179

I hear she has had him pegged from the very beginning. MineralMan Feb 2026 #223

Nominated for best reply of the century. Maybe Ilsa Feb 2026 #71

I am deeply honoured, thank you. My first reaction was unprintable. niyad Feb 2026 #87

+1 leftstreet Feb 2026 #108

+2 Permanut Feb 2026 #118

Great response niyad Brenda Feb 2026 #138

Thank you. It took a bit to write calmly! niyad Feb 2026 #140

It's been sad to see apologists here for decades. Brenda Feb 2026 #142

I am absolutely not surprised, coming from that one Skittles Feb 2026 #181

So disappointingly true. niyad Feb 2026 #185

Bravo! BlueSpot Feb 2026 #182

Thank you. niyad Feb 2026 #186

THIS! And especially.... electric_blue68 Feb 2026 #233

The Asshole was groping a woman in an elevator. MineralMan Feb 2026 #69

I agree liberalgunwilltravel Feb 2026 #95

Some people respond as if it's not the real world people live in. MineralMan Feb 2026 #101

Thank you for mentioning training in self defense oberle Feb 2026 #169

She made it quite clear after the 1st kacekwl Feb 2026 #80

Nobody is immobilized by one woman's kick to the groin synni Feb 2026 #88

No it wasn't and her defense was exactly as women are trained to do when being assaulted ms liberty Feb 2026 #120

Not from my viewpoint Sanity Claws Feb 2026 #10

This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Feb 2026 #14

You wholly ignore 'Reasonable Fear' Torchlight Feb 2026 #20

The fact that she was trapped & couldn't escape changed the situation, IMO. CrispyQ Feb 2026 #29

....... bluestarone Feb 2026 #38

And she reasoned that he needed a little more reason not to re-attack. MineralMan Feb 2026 #74

Your concern for the sexual predator is noted. chia Feb 2026 #119

if a guy touches me uninvited Skittles Feb 2026 #183

Sorry, he had ample opportunity to act in an adult and civil manner Torchlight Feb 2026 #11

He put hands on her mcar Feb 2026 #22

He wasn't going to stop The Blue Flower Feb 2026 #26

That's right mcar Feb 2026 #160

He put his hands on her TWICE Seinan Sensei Feb 2026 #45

She had every reason to believe he wouldn't stop mcar Feb 2026 #161

Is there a legal limit on beating a potential rapist to the floor? I saw no blood, body parts were still attached irisblue Feb 2026 #23

Even if in a place with a "duty to flee" IbogaProject Feb 2026 #25

Not excessive at all Soul_of_Wit Feb 2026 #30

If that was done to my Daughter or my Wife Seinan Sensei Feb 2026 #50

Nope. She's got it on video. He was warned. thought crime Feb 2026 #33

LOL don't you ever watch scary movies? leftstreet Feb 2026 #40

This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Feb 2026 #43

Sorry. Your post is just so tone deaf leftstreet Feb 2026 #48

Self-defense, not aggression. niyad Feb 2026 #51

This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Feb 2026 #57

What then is the precise point at which defense ends and aggression begins? Torchlight Feb 2026 #59

see post 27 niyad Feb 2026 #82

It's not a free pass for anything. Aristus Feb 2026 #93

Unlimited aggression? MontanaMama Feb 2026 #99

The problem is MorbidButterflyTat Feb 2026 #117

Unlimited aggression would have been empting a full magazine on his self entitled ass. Attilatheblond Feb 2026 #212

Ah, correct! leftstreet Feb 2026 #58

And I am so FUCKING PISSED at the misogynistic, patriarchal BS niyad Feb 2026 #109

Misogyny is Patriarchy's oxygen leftstreet Feb 2026 #110

Absolutely! SheltieLover Feb 2026 #67

Stiletto to the eyes face would be an effective response. irisblue Feb 2026 #84

There was a reason I used to wear 4-inch heels when I was in public. niyad Feb 2026 #125

Stick him with a Hat Pin! BidenRocks Feb 2026 #152

Very true. I don't wear hats, since my sunglasses are usually there if I niyad Feb 2026 #156

Somehow I think that kick to the balls Hope22 Feb 2026 #208

There isn't a jury on this planet that would convict her. cloudbase Feb 2026 #42

He was lucky she didn't pull out a pistol. Nt spooky3 Feb 2026 #70

Sadly, you are overly optimistic about juries. I have seen too many niyad Feb 2026 #126

Indeed. Some of the posts beggar belief. cloudbase Feb 2026 #127

Sadly true! niyad Feb 2026 #129

It absolutely is not obamanut2012 Feb 2026 #53

If she were a man... Dear_Prudence Feb 2026 #54

Killing him would have been excessive use of force Random Boomer Feb 2026 #56

And I hope she reported him to the police. Nt spooky3 Feb 2026 #72

He assaulted her, she moved away, he assaulted her again Justice Feb 2026 #192

He put his hands on her. She had no idea what was next. Irish_Dem Feb 2026 #62

What legal standpoint? fujiyamasan Feb 2026 #65

Thank you for pointing that out. niyad Feb 2026 #128

Not a problem fujiyamasan Feb 2026 #145

I heard that some Japanese rail lines BidenRocks Feb 2026 #157

While that is helpful to a degree, it does not address the problem niyad Feb 2026 #197

All this. electric_blue68 Feb 2026 #235

This would be a good training video ! thought crime Feb 2026 #171

She was trapped in a box with a man who assaulted her. LuckyCharms Feb 2026 #68

This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Feb 2026 #75

You're very wrong. LuckyCharms Feb 2026 #77

This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Feb 2026 #86

I think you're confusing rejections of your assertions with "being upset" Torchlight Feb 2026 #90

Snicker Brenda Feb 2026 #139

Oh, jeez. I'm late to this thread. He really said women were "being upset" because we object to demands Scrivener7 Feb 2026 #240

Oh, I'm not upset at all. LuckyCharms Feb 2026 #100

She turned and pushed a button BidenRocks Feb 2026 #158

Even if it was staged, only good can come from images of women fighting back. Scrivener7 Feb 2026 #241

See post 27. Keep digging that hole, dear heart. It is such a good look for you. niyad Feb 2026 #130

Damn straight niyad. MontanaMama Feb 2026 #213

I am angry, and disgusted. niyad Feb 2026 #215

As we should be. MontanaMama Feb 2026 #216

EXACTLY!!! niyad Feb 2026 #221

If you are in that situation, you have every reason to believe someone is going to try and rape you. FascismIsDeath Feb 2026 #189

She was always at risk of him strangling her. Taller/ heavier Hope22 Feb 2026 #218

"Excessive" would have been another two or three kicks to his nuts. GoCubsGo Feb 2026 #76

Nope. MontanaMama Feb 2026 #91

+1 for the blame comment. - nt CrispyQ Feb 2026 #159

She should've shouted "but the DOW is over fifty thousand" Shambala Feb 2026 #114

Snicker niyad Feb 2026 #132

Snort! electric_blue68 Feb 2026 #236

Public Service Notice ninjanurse Feb 2026 #134

Not sure about this because she would surely have been in fear of her life. He assaulted her by PatrickforB Feb 2026 #154

Well, if that had gone to trial and she was in the dock on assault charges, and I were on the jury... Jedi Guy Feb 2026 #178

I don't think so. A man is bigger and stronger than a woman, so she would be justified in fearing that if she didn't tblue37 Feb 2026 #184

A women who was assaulted in a confined space she cannot readily retreat from can/should use all the force she can Attilatheblond Feb 2026 #206

Golly, maybe if he had smiled more she wouldn't have felt the need to fiercely defend herself until she could escape Attilatheblond Feb 2026 #210

Yes. Because he could catch more flies with honey than with a creepy sexual assault in an elevator. Scrivener7 Feb 2026 #239

Really? She was still stuck in there with him LearnedHand Feb 2026 #227

Oh, for fuck's sakes. No, it wasn't excessive force. She did exactly the right thing. Scrivener7 Feb 2026 #232

Hope she left some lasting damage dalton99a Feb 2026 #4

And That's How You Do It! MineralMan Feb 2026 #5

She really dealt with that assaulter but hope she also called security and police to protect other less capable women. MLAA Feb 2026 #6

The fact that we are seeing the video... Soul_of_Wit Feb 2026 #36

I'm pretty sure a lot of elevators have security cameras in them. MineralMan Feb 2026 #78

I assumed it was security video Soul_of_Wit Feb 2026 #209

Yes. They only look at them if there is an incident. MineralMan Feb 2026 #211

That was the perfect place to put my last heart. 1WorldHope Feb 2026 #8

K&R! Torchlight Feb 2026 #12

Good for her! SheltieLover Feb 2026 #13

Whoa, don't know if this is real, but I'm gonna use her moves! Joinfortmill Feb 2026 #16

He (and Trump) need a dictionary that explain what "No!" means. Ping Tung Feb 2026 #19

From 2016, apparently woman is a Beijing TV host and actress. betsuni Feb 2026 #21

Thank you for this. I thought it looked a bit familiar. Still relevant. niyad Feb 2026 #135

My first thought was AI slop. Thanks for the post. Monsieur_Grumpe Feb 2026 #196

I wish more women/girls had more situational awareness. irisblue Feb 2026 #24

A friend asked me once why I do not use headphones when I am niyad Feb 2026 #39

Holy shit that was pretty badass! fujiyamasan Feb 2026 #28

Bravo! You go, girl! Vinca Feb 2026 #31

BRAVA!!! niyad Feb 2026 #37

I do not know whether this was staged (as I remember a similar video niyad Feb 2026 #35

Excessive force, Maj. Dude Feb 2026 #41

Well done! UpInArms Feb 2026 #44

This seems staged. However, IF this video teaches or inspires a woman to: flvegan Feb 2026 #46

What more do we know about this? I think it looks like... QueerDuck Feb 2026 #47

There is a (possibly apocryphal) story from many years ago in the London tube dickthegrouch Feb 2026 #55

She was in danger with no ability to flee until the door opened Ritabert Feb 2026 #63

And THAT, my dears, is how it is DONE!!!!! hamsterjill Feb 2026 #64

I celebrate her quick reactions--and good aim! hlthe2b Feb 2026 #73

Good for her. He has no business putting hands on her. She did excellent. Don't minimize. Srkdqltr Feb 2026 #79

Possibly fake video Tasmanian Devil Feb 2026 #81

Nope. That is a camera mounted in the ceiling of the elevator car. MineralMan Feb 2026 #104

well, i guess i could smile at the camera next time i'm in an elevator -- but i don't think it'll show up very good orleans Feb 2026 #168

Looks fake to me. There's a lot of this stuff getting posted in the "reels" Liberal In Texas Feb 2026 #107

So.... MorbidButterflyTat Feb 2026 #113

LOL! ShazzieB Feb 2026 #180

This message was self-deleted by its author PeaceWave Feb 2026 #116

Wut? Brenda Feb 2026 #147

And the only rec for this post calling it AI slop is Brenda Feb 2026 #143

Please ... Tasmanian Devil Feb 2026 #153

This looks so fake Chicagogrl1 Feb 2026 #83

It's fake. They're both amateur actors. Made to be click-bait and passed all over social media. Liberal In Texas Feb 2026 #149

Fake or not, if only something like that had happened to a convicted 34-count... the nelm Feb 2026 #170

Staged or not, it shows women a course of action in such a situation. niyad Feb 2026 #225

The "well actually" crowd is in the building mcar Feb 2026 #228

Yes, but this is about women protecting themselves. The very idea niyad Feb 2026 #229

Yes, they have to be totally aware of what they are doing mcar Feb 2026 #230

ggrrrrrrr niyad Feb 2026 #231

I can't believe that the guy thought that would work. mjvpi Feb 2026 #85

He got what's coming to him. bluescribbler Feb 2026 #89

She did a fine job. Swede Feb 2026 #94

should have kicked him once more when he was down moonshinegnomie Feb 2026 #103

It looks rehearsed. Omnipresent Feb 2026 #105

"She allowed him...." MorbidButterflyTat Feb 2026 #111

I never suggested she put herself in a corner. Omnipresent Feb 2026 #194

And if he came at her again when her back was against the wall, she could have been trapped. ShazzieB Feb 2026 #151

My point is that most people want to see who is lurking around behind them. Omnipresent Feb 2026 #193

Convince me this isn't staged misanthrope Feb 2026 #106

Staged or scripted Tasmanian Devil Feb 2026 #112

I don't care if it's staged or not. Dem_in_Nebr. Feb 2026 #121

Yeah, even if it was staged or faked, I think it was informative. ShazzieB Feb 2026 #187

And THAT is how it's done. Javaman Feb 2026 #122

If i am alone on an elevator and a MineralMan Feb 2026 #123

Used to be a tip of the Fedora. BidenRocks Feb 2026 #173

Well, don't expect a tip of the MAGA cap. MineralMan Feb 2026 #200

I've watched the video a couple of times and IMO no jury would convict her LogDog75 Feb 2026 #136

FAFO Timewas Feb 2026 #137

I also agree that no jury would convict her. HeartsCanHope Feb 2026 #141

She was in an enclosed space with someone making unwanted advances, with no way to know how far he was going DFW Feb 2026 #146

Right on. Tactical Peek Feb 2026 #144

Not been Rebl2 Feb 2026 #148

Same here. And I did not get on an elevator if there was a lone man there. niyad Feb 2026 #150

Think back to 2016 canetoad Feb 2026 #155

That's about how old this staged video is. Hassin Bin Sober Feb 2026 #162

Really? canetoad Feb 2026 #163

I'll have to remember that move! ShazzieB Feb 2026 #188

Can you just imagine the hysteria had she done so? niyad Feb 2026 #217

That... I partly (at the least) wished she'd said "Get the hell way from me!" electric_blue68 Feb 2026 #237

Women bdamomma Feb 2026 #164

And boy will it be tough in our new burkas! Nt Hope22 Feb 2026 #219

Unless bdamomma Feb 2026 #224

I look good in red.. Hope22 Feb 2026 #226

If real, she did exactly the right thing. chowmama Feb 2026 #166

'Bought 9-10 years ago, my husband broke up a dude from hitting the dude's girlfriend. chouchou Feb 2026 #172

She should have nailed him even more. Make him a eunuch. BigmanPigman Feb 2026 #174

Good for her! ABC123Easy Feb 2026 #176

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excellent job. pansypoo53219 Feb 2026 #195

Busting his nuts! Smart move. ProudMNDemocrat Feb 2026 #198

Violence is good as long as we agree with the outcome AZLD4Candidate Feb 2026 #199

Good for Her!! She walloped an Epstein Jr. !! It appears she is trained blue-wave Feb 2026 #201

ouch... myohmy2 Feb 2026 #202

Just make sure you hurt them bad enough they can't follow you. Linda ladeewolf Feb 2026 #203

That looked super choreographed LoveSucky Feb 2026 #204

Message auto-removed Name removed Feb 2026 #222

Good on her! Either real (effin' bastard wouldn't take no), or staged as training. electric_blue68 Feb 2026 #238