I ended our relationship 4mo ago. He died Wednesday Oct 14

[Wawannabe]

Last edited Sun Oct 18, 2020, 12:11 PM - Edit history (1)

Jim. My best friend for more than two years, my lover, my heart.

He was a tRumper. I forgive that.

He was 49 1-2 years old.
I am gutted!!! I turned 50 on Friday and it was the worst birthday of my life!


Thanks for reading. Just need a hug.

[Newest Reality]

1. Hug!

[Zoonart]

2. So sorry for your pain and loss.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((( )))))))))))))))))))))))))

[SaveOurDemocracy]

3. {((((((((((((( Wawannabe ))))))))))))))) So many people in so much pain. Love and peace to you.

[TexasTowelie]

4. I'm sorry for your loss.

[MLAA]

5. 💕💕💖💖💕

[Turbineguy]

6. ( )

A Hug and a Kind Word

[mercuryblues]

7. Hugs to you

[IADEMO2004]

8. Hug for your sadness Hug for your loss Hug for your 2020

[lostnfound]

9. So sorry.

Tell us, if you like: What was best about him?

Hugs and hopes for healing.

[Wawannabe]

28. Our love of music!!!!

He was a punk! Bass player.
I also love music.

We were gutted when John Prine lost battle to Covid. This was our song.


https://m.

[AllaN01Bear]

10. du hug

[niyad]

11. Sending virtual hugs, and vibes for comfort and healing. Your DU family is here for you.

So very sorry for your loss.

[elleng]

12. :hug:

[sinkingfeeling]

13. Hugs.

[cate94]

14. I'm so sorry

[grantcart]

15. There is no way to quantify the damage Trump has inflicted

Sorry you had to be a casualty.

[tavernier]

16. You did not have the gift to see the future...

I hope you’re not beating yourself up for the breakup. You could not have known. Celebrate his life and your past together with love and fondness. Let other emotions go.

[Fla Dem]

17. OMG, so sorry. Although you were no longer a couple, a real stab in the heart.

[Sherman A1]

18. My Condolences

on your loss.

May he rest in peace.

[bronxiteforever]

19. I am so sorry.

💔

[chowder66]

20. I'm so sorry.

[irisblue]

21. I am very sorry for your loss

[PatSeg]

22. I am so sorry

[KY_EnviroGuy]

23. Thanks for sharing, Wawannabe. Big Sunday DU hugs out to you.

Many of us here also have lost loved ones during or just prior to the pandemic and it's a struggle. I lost three very big ones in my life just in the past year or so, and now suffering again through their birthdays and anniversaries of their deaths. Thank goodness for my two adult kids, my bird feeders, music, stuff to fix around the house, meditation and for DU.

I hope you find a path to peace and closure, perhaps through meditation or Mother Nature, or through other friends.

KY...... ...... .......

[Wawannabe]

29. Yes!! Thank goodness for DU!

[flamin lib]

24. There aren't really any words anyone can say right now to

mend your heart.

But someday it will heal.

Meanwhile we are all here for you. It helps to share your grief.

[Hip2bSquare]

25. I told a co-worker who recently lost her sister...

A new co-worker started with us right before the shelter in place when Covid hit. During that time her sister was having headaches and found out she had a tumor. Unfortunately, her sister lost her fight.

I told my co-worker, you'd think God would give us a break from any addtional heartbreak during this horrible time, but it just doesn't happen.

I'm very sorry for the loss. I turned 50 just a few weeks ago also, certainly not how I imagined my 50th year on earth would be.

Sheesh this year hurts...don't give up. Hopefully the clouds will clear soon.

[Wawannabe]

30. Happy 50th!

1970 ROCKED!

And thanks for the kind words.

[StarryNite]

26. I'm so very sorry.

[paleotn]

27. You got it.