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mr715

(2,282 posts)
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 05:50 PM Nov 1

Brought Cooper to the vet

Brought my dog to the vet yesterday to get a skin tag biopsied. 12 year old rescue All American dog found in the Bronx. Had her since she was a skinny puppy in NYC animal care and control.

I was paralyzed with anxiety all week and am suffering guilt for going to the vet where she got poked and prodded, while simultaneously feeling guilty for being scared to go sooner.

Any words of wisdom for my crazy self and my head-over-heels love for this big puppydog?

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Brought Cooper to the vet (Original Post) mr715 Nov 1 OP
Unconditional love- Dear_Prudence Nov 1 #1
Thanks mr715 Nov 1 #2
I know your anxiety. Have been going through something similar Polly Hennessey Nov 1 #3
Thanks mr715 Nov 1 #4
There's a quote that goes something like, Diamond_Dog Nov 1 #5
I appreciate it. mr715 Nov 1 #6
You are doing your best! Hope22 Nov 1 #7
She's microdosing peanut butter mr715 Nov 1 #8
💗💗🙏🏼 Hope22 Nov 1 #12
I've been there, not only with my Nigrum Cattus Nov 1 #9
Thank you. mr715 Nov 1 #10
Healing vibes on the way to you & your precious companion pupper SheltieLover Nov 1 #11
Update mr715 Monday #13
👏👏👏👏👏👏 irisblue Monday #14

Dear_Prudence

(909 posts)
1. Unconditional love-
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 06:02 PM
Nov 1

It's the gift our pets offer. So, accept the gift. You are doing the best you can and, even if you do make a mistake, Cooper is there for you.

mr715

(2,282 posts)
2. Thanks
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 06:07 PM
Nov 1

She is an unconditional love dog. I was a little disappointed at quickly she went with the vet without even a hint of hesitation. Felt a little cheated on then (jk). She is pretty fearless.

I've been telling her proud I am of her all day for having good blood work and healthy organs. And for not being angry with me for leaving her with strangers for an hour. I'm crazy, but I think I'm crazy like most people.

Polly Hennessey

(8,345 posts)
3. I know your anxiety. Have been going through something similar
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 06:07 PM
Nov 1

with Millie, my nineteen year old cat. She was feeling bad a couple of weeks ago. Turns out she had a bladder infection and is slightly anemic. After some antibiotics and rest she is doing good now.

Taking Cooper to the Vet was a good thing. That’s what we do when we are head over heels in love with our best friends. Keep us posted. 🥰

mr715

(2,282 posts)
4. Thanks
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 06:10 PM
Nov 1

It is just the most weird emotion. Completely bypassed any attempt to intellectualize.

I read somewhere that for our pets it is basically "Oh the vet, I hate this, ew" but for us it carries the deeper mortal awareness. So I shouldn't feel guilty (or rather I am not technically feeling guilty but rather anxious).

But I was a mess, and I thought I was a strong dude. And nothing bad happened.

Diamond_Dog

(39,112 posts)
5. There's a quote that goes something like,
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 06:12 PM
Nov 1

“The love for all living creatures is the most noble attribute of man."

IMO anyone incapable of loving an animal can’t be a decent human being.

Hang in there - many many of us here know what you’re going through. We’re here for you.

Hope22

(4,319 posts)
7. You are doing your best!
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 06:14 PM
Nov 1

Be easy with yourself …. And give pupper some extra hugs. It will do you both good!💗💗🙏🏼

mr715

(2,282 posts)
8. She's microdosing peanut butter
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 06:17 PM
Nov 1

Very happy right now. Wasn't feeling good yesterday after the anesthesia but she is getting back to herself.

Nigrum Cattus

(1,091 posts)
9. I've been there, not only with my
Sat Nov 1, 2025, 06:35 PM
Nov 1

friends (not human) but myself
It's done, you did good
now just love your friend

mr715

(2,282 posts)
13. Update
Mon Nov 10, 2025, 07:07 PM
Monday

Benign, healthy as a horse. Finished her antibiotics. Continuing her probiotics for another couple of days. Stitches come out on Friday!

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