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bif

(26,485 posts)
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 04:43 PM 10 hrs ago

Women calling each other "dude" and "bro" in movies and shows.

When did that start? And does anyone else think it sounds weird?

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Nittersing

(7,924 posts)
2. I got called "dude" about 20 yrs ago by a younger, male, coworker
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 04:53 PM
9 hrs ago

Much the same way that my generation started referring to my gal pals as "guys" as in, "you guys want to go out for a couple drinks (or whatever)."

Brother Buzz

(39,326 posts)
11. The Stranger's monologue - "The Dude Abides"
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 07:52 PM
6 hrs ago

Sometimes you eat the bear….sometimes the bear eats you.



KLK1972

(3 posts)
5. My daughters do this!!
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:06 PM
9 hrs ago

With each other and their friends, I think they qualify as Gen Z. It's actually hilarious to see/hear. Also, one of them has a Funcle shirt, although she is not an uncle nor a funcle

Deuxcents

(24,843 posts)
6. I think some of their slang is only understood by them and they're just having fun. Like 6-7.
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:22 PM
9 hrs ago

Chalco

(1,430 posts)
7. I'm tired of all people referred to as men or man in books.
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:22 PM
9 hrs ago

When I read something that goes like "...and in the history of mankind..." I shake my head and feel unrepresented.

I know my mind is supposed to translate it to "well, the author means all of us, men and women" but I find it disrespectful.

anciano

(2,039 posts)
8. And somehow the phrase "you guys"
Wed Nov 19, 2025, 05:23 PM
9 hrs ago

has become the commonly used default when referring to a mixed gender group. To an old "dude" like me it just sounds awkward....

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