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Auggie

(33,069 posts)
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:32 PM Wednesday

CA assisted living facility confiscated all my mother's OTC drugs and laundry and cleaning supplies.

Anyone else have a friend or family member in a California assisted living facility undergo a recent house cleaning like this?

Staff said it was a state mandate that these items had to be reviewed and inventoried and that "most" would be returned.

I don't mean just aspirin, but hydrating skin lotion and nail polish remover.

Anyone hear of such a "mandate?"

My mother is as sharp as they come. So are many of the folks on the floor with her.

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CA assisted living facility confiscated all my mother's OTC drugs and laundry and cleaning supplies. (Original Post) Auggie Wednesday OP
The nurse at my mom's private retirement residence assessed correctly that my mom was having trouble applegrove Wednesday #1
I'm talking about Woolite. And Windex. And Skin Cream. Auggie Wednesday #3
Strange. That is a heavy load looking out for our parents when they age. applegrove Wednesday #4
Assisted living. Not skilled nursing. Not dementia care. A few of these folks own automobiles. Auggie Wednesday #5
Following... IcyPeas Wednesday #2
I'm trying to find out about the "State Mandate." There's nothing on Google. Auggie Wednesday #6
Call your state reps and see if they've heard anything about this? dflprincess Wednesday #8
I'm going to do that Auggie Wednesday #14
Is there by any chance, a social worker assigned to your mother's case? alwaysinasnit Wednesday #7
Entire building was affected. It is not one person. Auggie Wednesday #12
I found this resource. Maybe they can answer your questions. Good luck. alwaysinasnit Wednesday #15
In AZ, when DH was in an assisted living group home, marybourg Wednesday #9
Sounds like she was robbed. Horse poop otherwise, imo. babylonsister Wednesday #10
Happened to my mom karin_sj Wednesday #11
Thanks. This incident happened in the last few days. Auggie Wednesday #13
40 years ago when I worked in a oncology ward all meds and any possible hazards had to be removed. Jacson6 23 hrs ago #17
---- earlier post about the Calif. senior ombudsman. My friend is in assisted living in Penn. 3Hotdogs Wednesday #16
My mother-in-law was not allowed OTC sleep meds in NJ. NNadir 17 hrs ago #18

applegrove

(131,653 posts)
1. The nurse at my mom's private retirement residence assessed correctly that my mom was having trouble
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:40 PM
Wednesday

organizing and taking all her pills so she took them all and put mom on the list of the healthcare aide who dispensed drugs. She was looking out for mom (and probably wanting the fee). My mom was not suffering from Parkinsons' to the extent she was not aware what was going on. She just was not dealing properly with her meds. I was glad they did that.

Auggie

(33,069 posts)
3. I'm talking about Woolite. And Windex. And Skin Cream.
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:44 PM
Wednesday

Nobody assessed anything. They said "STATE MANDATE."

applegrove

(131,653 posts)
4. Strange. That is a heavy load looking out for our parents when they age.
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:47 PM
Wednesday

I found it so and I had so much help from my sister and excellent private healthcare aides who became friends.

Auggie

(33,069 posts)
5. Assisted living. Not skilled nursing. Not dementia care. A few of these folks own automobiles.
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:50 PM
Wednesday

IcyPeas

(25,329 posts)
2. Following...
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:42 PM
Wednesday

I don't know about this. I imagine acetone nail polish remover can be questionable. But facial moisturizer? What are they looking for? I don't like the idea of things being confiscated though.

I would rather have been given notice of this new mandate including a list of what they're looking for.

Auggie

(33,069 posts)
6. I'm trying to find out about the "State Mandate." There's nothing on Google.
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 08:52 PM
Wednesday

Wondering if it's a BS excuse to inventory everything for insurance purposes.

Thanks for responding.

marybourg

(13,612 posts)
9. In AZ, when DH was in an assisted living group home,
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 09:13 PM
Wednesday

all items like that had to be in a locked cabinet, because although DH was all there mentally, other home residents were not and could have gained access to these items and hurt themselves, others.

babylonsister

(172,710 posts)
10. Sounds like she was robbed. Horse poop otherwise, imo.
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 09:14 PM
Wednesday

State mandate? CA? No. Who has time for that?

karin_sj

(1,357 posts)
11. Happened to my mom
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 10:32 PM
Wednesday

She was in assisted living and they removed all of her over the counter items, like vitamins, aspirin, etc. Anything over the counter that her doctor wanted her to take had to be prescribed and the facility had to store and administer themselves. They said it was some kind of law in California. They did give me the option to take them home for myself though. I thought it was strange at the time, but I think it is actually a regulation.

Auggie

(33,069 posts)
13. Thanks. This incident happened in the last few days.
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 11:10 PM
Wednesday

I was wondering if the facility had not been aware of the law and was suddenly compensating for the oversight. A friend who witnessed the confiscation said they came in with the force of Gestapo. Not kidding.

Jacson6

(1,909 posts)
17. 40 years ago when I worked in a oncology ward all meds and any possible hazards had to be removed.
Thu Mar 5, 2026, 05:05 AM
23 hrs ago

For the meds they were locked in that ward's locker. The hazard stuff had to be removed. It was about patient safety.

3Hotdogs

(15,270 posts)
16. ---- earlier post about the Calif. senior ombudsman. My friend is in assisted living in Penn.
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 11:40 PM
Wednesday

The new director had to establish his authoritarian bona fides. So he tried to pull some bullshit. Friend called the Penn ombudsman and the situation was quickly resolved in her favor.

NNadir

(37,817 posts)
18. My mother-in-law was not allowed OTC sleep meds in NJ.
Thu Mar 5, 2026, 10:24 AM
17 hrs ago

She was on a lot of meds and the concern, legitimate in my view, was a risk of drug-drug interactions and the potential for overdose. She was on a lot of pain meds.

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