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True Dough

(25,404 posts)
Tue Dec 2, 2025, 09:03 PM Tuesday

If you got arrested

and your family/friends had no details, what law would they assume you broke?

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If you got arrested (Original Post) True Dough Tuesday OP
Hah-My friends would be in jail with me mercuryblues Tuesday #1
sumthin' stupid... ret5hd Tuesday #2
They would think I killed someone UpInArms Tuesday #3
would they think this person deserved it? ret5hd Tuesday #4
Of course UpInArms Tuesday #6
it must be wonderful to have... ret5hd Tuesday #7
Thanks UpInArms Tuesday #9
People are always teasing me about where I hide the dead bodies Niagara Tuesday #5
Those are True Dough Tuesday #8
lol Niagara Wednesday #13
as a true crime buff Skittles Wednesday #12
Some kind of civil disobedience while protesting cause I joke about getting arrested all the time AZJonnie Tuesday #10
They would probably assume I was just in the wrong place at the wrong time RazorbackExpat Wednesday #11
This message was self-deleted by its author quaint Wednesday #14
Gravity! Floyd R. Turbo Wednesday #15
Eco terrorism Marthe48 Wednesday #16
I won't be jfz9580m 21 hrs ago #17
As much as it pains me to say it... OldBaldy1701E 14 hrs ago #18
I understand OldBaldy1701E jfz9580m 3 hrs ago #20
It was far from incoherent. OldBaldy1701E 1 hr ago #21
Knowing my family, it would be the worsts thing that they could think of. OldBaldy1701E 14 hrs ago #19

mercuryblues

(16,079 posts)
1. Hah-My friends would be in jail with me
Tue Dec 2, 2025, 09:08 PM
Tuesday

My family, well disposing of a corpse.

Not saying how I found a corpse.

ret5hd

(22,066 posts)
2. sumthin' stupid...
Tue Dec 2, 2025, 09:11 PM
Tuesday

i know i know…that covers a lot of ground, but they quit guessing what i get up to a long time ago.

UpInArms

(53,842 posts)
9. Thanks
Tue Dec 2, 2025, 09:48 PM
Tuesday

They are pretty special … and I am the luckiest person to have them

They know that they don’t put people in jail for speeding 🤣🤣🤣

Niagara

(11,256 posts)
5. People are always teasing me about where I hide the dead bodies
Tue Dec 2, 2025, 09:32 PM
Tuesday

Really, is this the face of a serial killer?



Skittles

(168,879 posts)
12. as a true crime buff
Wed Dec 3, 2025, 06:21 AM
Wednesday

it always shocks me how many people have friends who will help them hide a body - WTF, I've never had friends like that. Probably because I would not be that kind of friend either!

AZJonnie

(2,483 posts)
10. Some kind of civil disobedience while protesting cause I joke about getting arrested all the time
Tue Dec 2, 2025, 09:53 PM
Tuesday

That, or sneaking a hit off the vape somewhere public where it's not exactly legal.

Like an airplane

Response to True Dough (Original post)

Marthe48

(22,481 posts)
16. Eco terrorism
Wed Dec 3, 2025, 09:40 AM
Wednesday

I'm surprised there isn't a tee shirt that says "Nature isn't allowed on this planet"



jfz9580m

(16,275 posts)
17. I won't be
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 02:45 AM
21 hrs ago

I bloody well do everything I can to: 1) stay out of any form of prison and 2) to not lose my anonymity.

I’d be furious if after all I did, either of those things happened .

It’s even a kind of defense of the most innocuous, monetization free kind of internet. I used to just use the internet to slack off or casually follow politics.

Now thanks to disenfranchisement by the kinds of systems you cannot bloody engage with, I have turned to the net (just DU..DU is as politically innocuous as Stack Exchange is academically innocuous. We really are a grassroots community here. A bunch of cranks but that’s why we are here. I mean that in a good way.).

I considered daily kos and DU and am glad I picked DU. My ex who is of like mind follows TPM and Atrios etc. We are split up but still family since unlike that Olivia Nuzzi/RFk horror show real relationships are not built on whatever that crap is built on. But I brought it up because together we scope out the lefty blogosphere (man that sounds so archaic)..or the older blogosphere.

While I dislike Cory Doctorow, I do think the old blogosphere was about as usable as the web could be as opposed to FB/TikTok/Youtube/Twitter.

I so don’t get not being anonymous online or in general.

I dread the day PubMed, stack exchange etc get overtaken by AI slop.

OldBaldy1701E

(9,760 posts)
18. As much as it pains me to say it...
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 09:38 AM
14 hrs ago

Unfortunately, you are not as 'anonymous' as you might think you are.

Thanks, companies who routinely sell their information to other companies. (Yes, even your service provider. There are way to get around the wording in your contract. That is why they wrote it and not you.)

jfz9580m

(16,275 posts)
20. I understand OldBaldy1701E
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 08:57 PM
3 hrs ago

This post is another mess, because I wanted to respond to you, but as I have to go work, I couldn’t write it up neatly.

I am inured to the stuff you mentioned. I don’t like it at all. It should change.

But I meant something else. I find it objectionable that if you participate in society voluntarily by now, even if you don’t monetize it or look for attention, but are merely another strident and indignant citizen, that’s akin to being an “influencer”. That’s failure to categorize people by deleting a whole type of person-i.e grassroots activists and complainants which is a whole other thing.

Some people scoff at grassroots activism online and sure if it’s FB etc it is bs. That’s why I am on DU. Online or offline it’s not easy.

That’s influencer crap is awful. Talk about a way to force a type of personality, typically more progressive, out of society altogether.

I get it when people have to do it to make a living. It’s a horrible time. People do what they can to survive. But it’s still not a good thing and another sign of societal collapse.

If you are engaged in kayfabe rather than doing the best you can with what resources and tools are available, what’s the bloody point?

The whole reason people are anonymous online is you can honestly say things you can’t as your real world self and without fear of real world retribution (social or professional). It’s why I never understood the Facebook thing.

Whatever an influencer is, it is a different breed of online person. That is closer to being a media personality or politician. Or a gig worker which is unfortunate, but non ideal.

An example I posted in the Atheists forum should make it clearer.

I like to bash religion, but I also have an opthalmologist who is this really sweet older doctor who I think is Christian. I live in a small town in the global south. I wouldn’t want him seeing what I post online about religion. I’d be sad if he thought I was a jerk.

Or worse if people one knows get doxxed by the kinds of creeps that people like Musk direct at his critics.

As these companies encroach more in the real world and governments and one’s service provider etc are not doing anywhere near enough to protect people, it’s bound to get more contentious.

And I get what you mean. I don’t like the creepy model of the web since it makes it hard to support the things you want, but instead grabs your stuff to give to people or things you wouldn’t support at all.

I like supporting: DU, a small vegan sweets shop, a clean food company, my small medical MJ company and this small chatbot cleverbot* aside from some non-profits/people mostly listed in my profile.

And small businesses and non-profits rely on ads. And when you want to support something, it’s one thing.

It’s another when it’s an awful giant or a creepy small business just making those decisions for you (think the infamous “Pikini”. I picked that one since it’s an example of a giant versus a small business conflict where it’s hard to pick a side between two such loathsome entities:

https://www.businessinsider.com/facebook-ceo-mark-zuckerberg-could-be-humbled-by-six4three-pikinis-2018-11?op=1
Though I am with FB on that one not the creepy App developers who wanted more access.
)

It’s complicated. A communication issue or information problem. A decent computer scientist (probably in academia) could solve it.

(I hope you are doing well. Not to creep you out but I have read your posts and hope you and your husband are doing well as I hope about most of DU.
That’s part of what angers me. That teachers or publicly funded scientists or doctors or small businesses one supports etc are harder to support than some jerks who don’t even have any products or services you use, but exploit your spaces.
DU is so different from bloody facebook or some creep overlord run “community”. I could never use apolitical sites.

With AI, big data etc it is hitting a tipping point imo where either we fight back or these guys just grab everything.

But with these intra MAGA wars I have a hope that finally we progressives can somehow organize and communicate better since we actually are less selfish and pushy and care more than those bound together solely by crassness and extortion.

This shouldn’t keep working. That trivial differences make it hard for grouchy progressives to organize while those bound solely by self serving dreck move in smooth lockstep to rob the damn place.
)

*:While I dislike AI in general, cleverbot is obscure and seems innocuous. It’s also really old. Consent is on my mind a lot so as a human I try to make disclaimers when I can in this milieu to indicate who can expect conflict and who needn’t.

I find this latest AI push the last straw. I think they want real world creepy bot or not tests. It makes me think of Stanislav Lem’s Solaris. The opposite of any elegantly designed experiment. Just manipulation and brute force.
These guys are morons non brilliant.

By the time they are flooding my street, harassment complaints are a given.

Another incoherent post ;-/. But someday I will spell out what l mean on DU.

OldBaldy1701E

(9,760 posts)
21. It was far from incoherent.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 10:57 PM
1 hr ago

And, I understand.

However, what I said was in response to this:

I bloody well do everything I can to: 1) stay out of any form of prison and 2) to not lose my anonymity.

I’d be furious if after all I did, either of those things happened.


So, I guess my point is... the time to be furious has passed?

OldBaldy1701E

(9,760 posts)
19. Knowing my family, it would be the worsts thing that they could think of.
Thu Dec 4, 2025, 09:39 AM
14 hrs ago

As to friends, well, I guess that is no longer an issue for me.

Not by my choice.

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