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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsJust got a call from the surgeon that my wife of 37 years did well with hip replacement surgery..
Sharing that with you guys because:
A. We can use all the good news we can get;
and
B, I'm sitting here by myself in the hospital cafe eating Cheetos by myself.
Hope she's good for another 37 years; I'll check the warranty.

Scrivener7
(55,827 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)Scrivener7
(55,827 posts)MIButterfly
(444 posts)That is good news. Here's to a swift recovery. I wish your wife all the best. Keep us posted.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)SheltieLover
(68,582 posts)Healing vibes on the way to her!
Permanut
(7,119 posts)Karadeniz
(24,467 posts)Permanut
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LoisB
(10,604 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)riversedge
(75,736 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)The physical therapist had her up and walking a couple of steps.
Tanuki
(15,894 posts)Best wishes for her full and speedy recovery, and many more blessed and joyous years together!
🥰🌷
Permanut
(7,119 posts)The whole thing is amazing to me.
NewLarry
(86 posts)All the best to both of y'all, and hopes for a speedy and complete recovery.
Tell her to put on her dancing shoes, and take her out!
Permanut
(7,119 posts)She should be ready in a few months, say August.
Figarosmom
(5,905 posts)My sister broke her hip and had a replacement. She limped for a while but didn't even have to take therapy.
walkingman
(9,278 posts)Figarosmom
(5,905 posts)My daughter is a physical therapist and she says hip replacements are not as bad as knee replacements. Use a cane or walker until you are comfortable walking without. Be mindful of every step and where you are placing your foot as you walk.
soldierant
(8,569 posts)replacement. I was told that by a PA at the orthopedic clinic which serves the Olympic Training Center when I was diagnosed with osteoarthritis in the left knee.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)walkingman
(9,278 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)Delightful to see her up already
3catwoman3
(26,737 posts)2 night hospital stay the first time. Home same afternoon and walking up the stairs unassisted with the second one - yikes!
Wishing your sweetheart an uneventful recovery.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)Sounds like you're on the way to being the Bionic Woman!
iluvtennis
(21,227 posts)
senseandsensibility
(22,217 posts)I wish her a speedy recovery!
Permanut
(7,119 posts)She just said "Hip, hip hooray!"
senseandsensibility
(22,217 posts)and that will serve her well during her recovery.
jrthin
(5,131 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)You're right, I wasn't breathing right while I was waiting.
rubbersole
(9,869 posts)But instead of Cheetos try Funyums. It speeds up the recovery. 😜
Permanut
(7,119 posts)Might take several doses.
leftieNanner
(15,967 posts)That means that you are her recovery coach. I did that for my husband twice. Be fierce with the exercises and she will get strong and able quickly.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)She wants to live life at a hundred miles an hour. I may have to put in some speed bumps.
Phoenix61
(18,369 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)surfered
(6,995 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)I'm retired, and so is she, so there's no escape!
wordstroken
(1,185 posts)You are not alone. Your DU familiar is right there beside you cheering you on.
Sending love and hugs to you both.
🦋 wordstroken
Permanut
(7,119 posts)Amaryllis
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(7,119 posts)Srkdqltr
(8,422 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)She'll be glad to hear your experience. Okay, just told her. Very reassuring, Srkdqltr.
Fla Dem
(26,737 posts)Last edited Wed Apr 23, 2025, 07:55 AM - Edit history (1)

Permanut
(7,119 posts)gademocrat7
(11,489 posts)Wishing you ur wife a good recovery. Take care🤗
Permanut
(7,119 posts)Tetrachloride
(8,735 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)Now that's a great warranty!
joanbarnes
(2,009 posts)Two years ago, pain is 100% gone. Best wishes to your wife.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)But it hasn't been even 24 hours yet. She will be very glad to hear your experience.
TommieMommy
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(7,119 posts)malaise
(284,543 posts)Heal quickly wifey😀
Permanut
(7,119 posts)OldSWODog
(101 posts)P, greetings. You're correct: good news (even from others) is enjoyed. I trust the rehab goes well; your bride will likely consider the PTs to be Torquemada understudies but, once completed, may she enjoy a newly functional joint. Cheers, OSD
Permanut
(7,119 posts)I'll be cheering from the sidelines.
HeartsCanHope
(1,049 posts)
Permanut
(7,119 posts)Andy Canuck
(310 posts)I hope shes up and running soon.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)I'm blown away by your response and all the good wishes on this thread. You have truly helped with her healing.
Nasruddin
(1,030 posts)Her career as a paratrooper, though, might be over
Permanut
(7,119 posts)And skydiving and bungee jumping may be out too.
aggiesal
(10,054 posts)Just teasing.
Again, good to hear.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)I'm just the muscle. I'm not gonna mess with that
NCgayguy
(140 posts)May You Both Be Healthy, Safe and Happy!
Permanut
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ShazzieB
(20,755 posts)Happy to hear it! I hope your wife has a fast and smooth recovery!
I've been nudging my husband to look into having a hip replaced. Not sure it would be the right choice for his situation, but I'm trying to get him to at least see an orthopedist to find out. Wish us luck, lol.
niyad
(123,905 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)niyad
(123,905 posts)niyad
(123,905 posts)for both of you. Your DU family is here for you, lean as hard as you neeed.
Cheetos??? Could you go down to the cafeteria, and at least get something more closely resembling actual food? Or have sonething delivered? Will you be staying there while?
Permanut
(7,119 posts)but the selection was nothing to brag about. Cheese pizza that looks like a doormat, you know the drill.
Thank you for your kind words, makes this challenge a little lighter.
electric_blue68
(21,533 posts)From my 2 experiences w PT
left shoulder [ripped rotators] in my late 30's (and Im a lefty)
tri-frsctured right ankle [got metal] in late 50's
If she does her PT about 96% of the time she should have excellent results. A little slack off allowed, but that's it.
Good Luck!
)))healing✨️vibes(((
Permanut
(7,119 posts)Thanks electrc_blue68!
electric_blue68
(21,533 posts)LQ_Dem
(5 posts)Had my right hip replaced four years ago. Use a walker for a few days. Then go to a cane. Then quickly toss it and start walking and ASAP bicycling. I rewarded myself by growing a beard. Don't stop...this is a long-term recovery. Hardest part was getting my golf swing back. Just didn't feel right for the longest time. I eventually changed my swing (for the better) and am now on track.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)I'm going to read your reply directly to her, it's like you know her. She's really just getting started on her recovery, but already frustrated about toddling around the house with the walker. She will be delighted with just the idea of using a cane instead.
We've spent a lot of time on the regular bikes; my brilliant idea about that is to get her an electric bike, maybe get her out on the road faster. I'm not telling her that part, her birthday is next week.
Hope22
(3,988 posts)Sending love to both of you!💗💗🙏🏼
Permanut
(7,119 posts)dai13sy
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(7,119 posts)OldBaldy1701E
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InAbLuEsTaTe
(25,158 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)calimary
(86,464 posts)Thanks for the good news! We ALL need it.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)Bluethroughu
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Permanut
(7,119 posts)She has enjoyed running just recreationally, so I'm hoping a long with you. Looks excellent, for her to get back to it
AllaN01Bear
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Permanut
(7,119 posts)Thanks AllaNO1Bear!
webhead usa
(2 posts)I had my surgery 9 years ago. No problems.
Make certain your wife does the rehab exercises.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)She's committed, and we're both retired, so no distractions, no excuses.
LetMyPeopleVote
(163,804 posts)Clouds Passing
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(7,119 posts)lark
(25,055 posts)Hope I do as well with my upcoming shoulder surgery.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)It's mind boggling to me as a non medical person that these joints can be replaced.
Best wishes back at ya for your upcoming surgery; let us know results! Just a side question about right or left, dominant side?
Erda
(183 posts)Here's to another 37+ years!
Permanut
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Peacetrain
(23,980 posts)My husband and I were married 37 years when I had a knee replacement.. and we did lots and lots of planning... and took those awesome trips (and are planning more) it seems like yesterday.. time flies..
Best wishes to your wife .
Permanut
(7,119 posts)We want to follow in your footsteps; number one on her bucket list is Paris, and we will be able to do that now.
femmedem
(8,508 posts)The recovery took a while, but now I feel as if there was never anything wrong. It sure feels great to be able to walk all over town again without limping.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)She will be delighted to hear your experience. She has the same question you probably had, about how long the recovery would take. Your perspective is great as someone who's been there.
femmedem
(8,508 posts)First, did the surgeon use the anterior or posterior approach? Mine used the posterior approach, partly because of a congenital hip abnormality and partly because it's what he's more experienced at. This approach slows the recovery time, but the outcome ends up being just as good.
Second, does she have any conditions that would make her recovery slower than usual?
I know one person who had the anterior approach who was walking on the beach with no walking aids within a few days. It took me over a month to ditch the cane, but again, I have an abnormality that slowed my recovery.
However long it takes, she'll be happy she had it done!
Permanut
(7,119 posts)No pre existing conditions, and health generally good.
Dorothy V
(321 posts)Make sure she goes to all her PT!
spooky3
(37,512 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)I'm gonna play this for her immediately.
FemDemERA
(507 posts)Hope her recovery goes smoothly.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)She's off to a good start. We have that kind of house where you can loop around through the kitchen, dining, living room and hall back to where you started, so she's doing laps (well, only one so far).
ailsagirl
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Duncanpup
(14,531 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)when I was a kid people had a bad hip they just had to live with it.
Ford_Prefect
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Permanut
(7,119 posts)but she'll get it back.
Vinca
(52,104 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)And she was in surgery less than two hours.
Emile
(34,857 posts)Permanut
(7,119 posts)but my wife says all men do.
IbogaProject
(4,455 posts)Sorrow shared is halved
Native saying
Permanut
(7,119 posts)dem4decades
(12,802 posts)And thanks, we here can use all the good news we can get.
Permanut
(7,119 posts)It has been recommended that my wife increase her protein intake during her recuperation.
So, even though we don't eat much beef, we decided that tonight we're going with the Applebee's $9.99 burger special.
Of course, I'm going for the bacon cheese version because, oh, reasons.