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niyad

(130,219 posts)
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 01:28 PM 12 hrs ago

In honour of my late friend, may krasnov and his goons and enablers

rot in hell, experiencing every minute of the pain and sufferiing and chaos and terror they have inflicted on all of us.

A very dear friend died Saturday night. We had been through so much together, were there for each other. Daily texts, frequent calls about the shit show we are experiencing. I had been very worried about her all last week, recurring pneumonia, rapid weight loss, etc. Our last texts were about her anger and fear at the horror show. .and then. . . silence. And then the news from her son. I am so fucking angry that her last days and minutes were poisoned by the insanity we are living, that she feared for her children and grandchildren. For this, as for so much else, I can never forgive them. My one small hope is that at least maybe she was not aware of the horrors on Saturday.

Requiescat in pace, dear friend.

May all involved receive everything they deserve.

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In honour of my late friend, may krasnov and his goons and enablers (Original Post) niyad 12 hrs ago OP
Condolences for the loss of your friend MagickMuffin 12 hrs ago #1
Thank you so much. niyad 12 hrs ago #2
So sorry for your loss. hermetic 12 hrs ago #3
Thank you so much. niyad 12 hrs ago #4
So sorry for your loss MustLoveBeagles 12 hrs ago #5
Thank you so much. niyad 12 hrs ago #6
My deepest sympathy for your loss. sinkingfeeling 11 hrs ago #7
Thank you so much. niyad 10 hrs ago #8
Ohhh... gentle hug. So sorry for your loss. electric_blue68 8 hrs ago #9
Thank you so much. niyad 7 hrs ago #11
Deepest condolences to you and peace to your friend. SheilaAnn 8 hrs ago #10
Thank you so much. niyad 7 hrs ago #12
Oh, niyad, I am so very sorry. May The Universe welcome her soul with open LoisB 7 hrs ago #13
Thank you so much. She was an amazing person. . feminist, niyad 6 hrs ago #17
I will never understand why we lose people like her and the assholes keep LoisB 6 hrs ago #21
Exactly. Friends and I have railed at Grim repeatedly for screwing niyad 5 hrs ago #26
Peace and condolences for your loss. Dulcinea 7 hrs ago #14
Thank you so much. niyad 6 hrs ago #18
K&R UTUSN 7 hrs ago #15
Thank you so much. niyad 6 hrs ago #19
Hard to lose friends malaise 7 hrs ago #16
You have my deepest sympathies. niyad 6 hrs ago #20
I'm so sorry for your loss, niyad. LuckyCharms 5 hrs ago #22
Thank you so much. niyad 5 hrs ago #24
My sympathies on the loss of your dear friend. yellow dahlia 5 hrs ago #23
Thank you so much. She does, indeed. niyad 5 hrs ago #25
Deepest condolences SheltieLover 4 hrs ago #27
hugggggs and thank you so much. niyad 4 hrs ago #31
My God, what a horrible loss.. Permanut 4 hrs ago #28
Thank you so much. Sadly, we are not in charge, or things would niyad 4 hrs ago #32
I'm so sorry you lost your friend! Ocelot II 4 hrs ago #29
Thank you so much. niyad 4 hrs ago #33
Thank you so much. niyad 4 hrs ago #34
So sorry for your loss. johnp3907 4 hrs ago #30
Thank you so much. Yes, we both wanted that. niyad 4 hrs ago #35
I'm so sorry, niyad. Scrivener7 4 hrs ago #36
Thank you so much. niyad 3 hrs ago #39
I'm so sorry niyad FullySupportDems 4 hrs ago #37
Thank you so much. She was a wonderful person. niyad 3 hrs ago #40
My condolences to Faux pas 3 hrs ago #38
Thank you so much. niyad 3 hrs ago #41
So sorry for your loss, niyad Dear_Prudence 3 hrs ago #42
I'm so sorry, niyad. I wish your friend's last days hadn't been made worse by the craziness from Trump and highplainsdem 3 hrs ago #43
I'm sorry for your loss, Niyad BlueSpot 2 hrs ago #44

MagickMuffin

(18,143 posts)
1. Condolences for the loss of your friend
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 01:35 PM
12 hrs ago

Our country continues to lose the best among us.

May your friend's journey into the next phase with her Spirit Energy bring you Peace and comfort.



LoisB

(12,489 posts)
13. Oh, niyad, I am so very sorry. May The Universe welcome her soul with open
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 06:50 PM
7 hrs ago

arms. If she was your friend, I know she was a good person.

niyad

(130,219 posts)
17. Thank you so much. She was an amazing person. . feminist,
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 07:23 PM
6 hrs ago

environmentalist, animal lover, amazing wife and mother, incredible friend. So many times this week I have reached for my phone to text her something, only to have to remind myself.

LoisB

(12,489 posts)
21. I will never understand why we lose people like her and the assholes keep
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 07:56 PM
6 hrs ago

wasting space. My best friend (male) died in 2013; I still have "I have to tell Darrel" moments. There are some people who are the only ones we can have certain conversations with. She certainly sounds amazing.

niyad

(130,219 posts)
26. Exactly. Friends and I have railed at Grim repeatedly for screwing
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 09:20 PM
5 hrs ago

up so badly.

yellow dahlia

(5,053 posts)
23. My sympathies on the loss of your dear friend.
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 09:06 PM
5 hrs ago

We will always miss yet one more conversation.

She may have left this mortal coil, but she walks with us as we carry in in the resistance.





SheltieLover

(77,847 posts)
27. Deepest condolences
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 09:27 PM
4 hrs ago

So saddened to learn of your loss.

Healing vibes on the way to you & her family.

Permanut

(8,091 posts)
28. My God, what a horrible loss..
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 09:30 PM
4 hrs ago

You were there for her. I want to say we needed her, but I guess we're not in charge of that.

Requiescat indeed.

niyad

(130,219 posts)
32. Thank you so much. Sadly, we are not in charge, or things would
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 09:50 PM
4 hrs ago

be very different indeed.

johnp3907

(4,240 posts)
30. So sorry for your loss.
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 09:41 PM
4 hrs ago

I lost my big brother last year. A so wanted him to outlive that scum bag!

Dear_Prudence

(1,081 posts)
42. So sorry for your loss, niyad
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 11:01 PM
3 hrs ago

The world spinning, but she had your support and loving friendship until the very end. And you had hers. Condolences.

highplainsdem

(60,608 posts)
43. I'm so sorry, niyad. I wish your friend's last days hadn't been made worse by the craziness from Trump and
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 11:06 PM
3 hrs ago

his goons.

But I believe they will get what they deserve - that when those human monsters cross over, they'll experience every bit of pain they caused others here, and be unable to avoid knowing just how evil their actions were. And I'm still hoping they'll get the prosecutions and punishments they deserve here, in this life.

Your friend has crossed over to peace and love, and to reunions with all her loved ones, human and animal, on the other side. Picture her young and healthy again. I believe that's her reality now (beliefs not based on any religion - I haven't followed any since leaving the Catholic Church in my teens - but on what I've learned of near death experiences and other experiences people have had, including a lot of people I met through grief support groups over the years). I hope she'll find some way of comforting you and reassuring you she's fine. And you know she'd want you to take care of yourself.

BlueSpot

(1,262 posts)
44. I'm sorry for your loss, Niyad
Wed Jan 28, 2026, 11:28 PM
2 hrs ago

Unfortunately, any caring person can look around on the day of their dying (if they are able to do so) and be troubled with the injustice and inequity clearly visible in the world around them.

For sure, right now is worse than average but I think it is always so at some level.

Wouldn't it be wonderful to get to a time that it wasn't so? I think that describes the struggle.

Rest in peace, Niyad's friend. Know that we're still working on it.

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