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Demovictory9

(37,113 posts)
Sun May 25, 2025, 04:09 PM May 2025

Fetterman Says He's Being Shamed Into Showing Up , his mental health issues have been weaponized against him

Fetterman Says He's Being Shamed Into Showing Up
Under scrutiny, senator maintains his mental health issues have been weaponized against him


Sen. John Fetterman has been showing up for Senate duties more often lately, but not because he wants to. After suffering a stroke and being hospitalized for six weeks for treatment of depression, the Pennsylvania Democrat says he's being shamed into attending committee hearings, casting procedural floor votes, and performing the other day-to-day work of a senator. The reason for the change, Fetterman told the New York Times, is that "people in the media have weaponized" his absences to cast him as mentally unfit for the job.

He had just decided to spend more time at home instead of performing mundane tasks in the Capitol, Fetterman said. He calls being away from his family the worst part of the job. "I had to make a decision: getting here and sticking my thumb in the door for three seconds for a procedural vote or spend Monday night as a dad-daughter date," he said. And Fetterman said it bothers him that people have used his decision to seek treatment against him. "My doctor warned years ago: After it's public that you are getting help for depression, people will weaponize that," he said in the interview. "Simple things are turned. That's exactly what happened."

https://www.newser.com/story/369210/his-struggles-have-been-weaponized-fetterman-says.html

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Fetterman Says He's Being Shamed Into Showing Up , his mental health issues have been weaponized against him (Original Post) Demovictory9 May 2025 OP
You signed up for it bucolic_frolic May 2025 #1
If his mental health issues keep him from being in the Senate, he needs to resign. Lonestarblue May 2025 #2
Absolutely SheltieLover May 2025 #30
Quite The Whiner RobinA May 2025 #3
Well, to give him credit Jilly_in_VA May 2025 #40
Then he needs to resign. Iggo May 2025 #4
Shamed into showing up? Good, that's his job. WhiskeyGrinder May 2025 #5
All due respect if the job is too much resign. Autumn May 2025 #6
That's the job. It's what he signed up for. Ocelot II May 2025 #7
I read a similar article in the Philly Inquirer peggysue2 May 2025 #8
Aloha, Peggysue... Cha May 2025 #27
Hey, Cha! peggysue2 May 2025 #33
lol! I was thinking... Cha May 2025 #36
Other highly-qualified and willing-to-work people would take over if you would step aside. RockRaven May 2025 #9
Whiner! buzzycrumbhunger May 2025 #10
No, I hope he hasn't turned into a Repuke, but he is not really doing his job...... a kennedy May 2025 #24
He's supported the orange bawbag... buzzycrumbhunger May 2025 #28
He thought Trump was reasonable. The Wizard May 2025 #11
Hopefully another Democrat will come forward to take his place ecstatic May 2025 #12
Are you David Hogg? Careful, any suggestion of a primary for incumbent Dems Arazi May 2025 #35
Suck it up, buttercup! You were elected to represent your constituents walkingman May 2025 #13
That's his Greg_In_SF May 2025 #14
sounds like an onion type story. has this been verified:? if so fetterman oughta resign nt msongs May 2025 #15
here is the original NY times article Demovictory9 May 2025 #20
Fascinating article buzzycrumbhunger May 2025 #31
He can retire if he feels that he can't or doesn't want to do the job anymore. Renew Deal May 2025 #16
Do yourself and the Democratic Party a big favor, Fetterman: Disappear. (nt) Paladin May 2025 #17
Then Resign! Happy Hoosier May 2025 #18
Time to resign and let the governor select your replacement Emile May 2025 #19
If he is no longer able to do the job, he should resign pinkstarburst May 2025 #21
If only we could all stay home to avoid "mundane tasks" leftstreet May 2025 #22
If your mentalhealth is such Jilly_in_VA May 2025 #23
Some companies provide mental health care Retrograde May 2025 #37
Exactly Jilly_in_VA May 2025 #41
Please resign and let Josh Shapiro appoint your replacement mountain grammy May 2025 #25
Had to check to see if this was a satire site. johnp3907 May 2025 #26
Yeah John, having to show up at work kinda sucks. HappyH May 2025 #29
I would be ashamed to NOT do my job JoseBalow May 2025 #32
time to resign and spend more time WhiteTara May 2025 #34
Omg with this one! Drum May 2025 #38
We sure know how to pick our candidates! Demovictory9 May 2025 #39
Shamed? By being asked to do your job? LR3 May 2025 #42
I really don't understand people like this Thrill May 2025 #43
Interesting complaints from Mr. "I am not woke" David__77 May 2025 #44

Lonestarblue

(13,225 posts)
2. If his mental health issues keep him from being in the Senate, he needs to resign.
Sun May 25, 2025, 04:21 PM
May 2025

That’s his job, to be physically present and working for the people.

RobinA

(10,467 posts)
3. Quite The Whiner
Sun May 25, 2025, 04:21 PM
May 2025

this guy turned out to be. Showing up for mundane tasks...it's called having a job.

Jilly_in_VA

(13,806 posts)
40. Well, to give him credit
Mon May 26, 2025, 10:59 AM
May 2025

he wasn't before the stroke. It was the stroke that affected his mental health. Still, if that is the case, and he cannot do his job, then he should resign.

Autumn

(48,734 posts)
6. All due respect if the job is too much resign.
Sun May 25, 2025, 04:25 PM
May 2025

Last edited Sun May 25, 2025, 05:11 PM - Edit history (1)

You knew what the job entailed , if a three second procedural vote is too hard you need to quit. As a working Mother I missed a lot of events with my daughter. That's life. No one is forcing you to do that job. You chose it. You are well compensated. Man up or go home and stay there.

peggysue2

(12,382 posts)
8. I read a similar article in the Philly Inquirer
Sun May 25, 2025, 04:36 PM
May 2025

I'm really disappointed in John Fetterman. I held my powder hoping he was just feeling his way around, new job, new responsibilities. The trip to Mar-a-Lago didn't sit well with me but again, I thought, the man has always gone his own way.

But this article (if accurate) smacks of entitlement. I'm guessing a number of US Senators have kids and kid-oriented functions (the daughter and Dad event) or have ailing parents, spouses, relatives with whom they'd like to spend time with. But if every Senator insisted on being absent for procedural votes, committee meetings or whatever, then the Senate's functions would be hampered, even grind to a halt. We're having a hard enough time holding the government together as it is.

Big John is a freshman Senator. He's been in the job for less than 4 months and yet has racked up 29 missed votes and holds the Senate's 3rd worst record for absenteeism (would love to know numbers 1 & 2).

So yes, disappointment for someone I supported and for whom I had great enthusiasm.

Damn!

Cha

(316,758 posts)
27. Aloha, Peggysue...
Sun May 25, 2025, 06:03 PM
May 2025

I know you've held your powder dry.. Mahalo for your post.. one thing though..

John Fetterman became a Senator in 2021..

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Fetterman

No Kings Hands Off! 💙🌈

Cha

(316,758 posts)
36. lol! I was thinking...
Sun May 25, 2025, 07:37 PM
May 2025

That 4 years went by awfully fast! A Blur! I had to make sure.. looked it up.

Always Glad to help.. Girlfriend!

RockRaven

(18,719 posts)
9. Other highly-qualified and willing-to-work people would take over if you would step aside.
Sun May 25, 2025, 04:36 PM
May 2025

So spare us the pity party, and the victim narrative. Nobody is forcing you to keep that highly-sought-after job.

Don't like the working conditions or expectations? Feel free to leave, expeditiously. Others are willing and ready to put up with the bad stuff, and thereby spare you from it.

a kennedy

(35,295 posts)
24. No, I hope he hasn't turned into a Repuke, but he is not really doing his job......
Sun May 25, 2025, 05:56 PM
May 2025

He needs to resign.

buzzycrumbhunger

(1,651 posts)
28. He's supported the orange bawbag...
Sun May 25, 2025, 06:19 PM
May 2025

… and he’s been absent from his job more than not. He *should* resign as much for his mental issues as for the fact he’s not remotely the Democrat he ran as and was elected for.

ecstatic

(35,012 posts)
12. Hopefully another Democrat will come forward to take his place
Sun May 25, 2025, 04:53 PM
May 2025

It sounds like he has a lot going on and doesn't really have time to be working on our behalf.

Arazi

(8,698 posts)
35. Are you David Hogg? Careful, any suggestion of a primary for incumbent Dems
Sun May 25, 2025, 06:51 PM
May 2025

will land you on some shit lists here

walkingman

(10,334 posts)
13. Suck it up, buttercup! You were elected to represent your constituents
Sun May 25, 2025, 04:55 PM
May 2025

if you are not capable, the honorable thing to do is to allow someone able and willing to do so.
We are in perilous times and need everyone fully engaged.

As my wife would say - put on your big boy pants and get busy.

msongs

(73,079 posts)
15. sounds like an onion type story. has this been verified:? if so fetterman oughta resign nt
Sun May 25, 2025, 05:00 PM
May 2025

buzzycrumbhunger

(1,651 posts)
31. Fascinating article
Sun May 25, 2025, 06:33 PM
May 2025

So he has zero interest in the day-to-day aspects of the job, the “performative” votes, interactions with fellow Dems, and won’t do town hall meetings with the constituents he supposedly represents because someone might challenge him on these issues… but he thinks he’s still worth the salary *we* are paying him to have daddy-daughter time and resents any suggestion that refusing to be there to do his job are simply attacks on his mental health issues?

JFC. Get a fucking grip, Fetterman…

Renew Deal

(84,704 posts)
16. He can retire if he feels that he can't or doesn't want to do the job anymore.
Sun May 25, 2025, 05:03 PM
May 2025

There is nothing wrong with preferring to be near his family.

Happy Hoosier

(9,402 posts)
18. Then Resign!
Sun May 25, 2025, 05:13 PM
May 2025

There is no shame in not being up. To a job, especially if one is a stroke survivor and has depression issues. But it IS wrong to deny Pennsylvanians proper representation in the Senate. Resign.

pinkstarburst

(1,874 posts)
21. If he is no longer able to do the job, he should resign
Sun May 25, 2025, 05:45 PM
May 2025

and allow the governor to appoint a replacement who is willing to show up for all the procedural votes and everything else his job entails. He's being paid $200K per year for 100 days of showing up and gets an amazing health insurance plan. If the travel schedule is not something he wants to deal with, he should resign and allow Shapiro to appoint someone else until a special election can be held.

That isn't "weaponizing his diagnosis." That's him being unwilling to do his job.

Skipping votes because you'd rather be at "daddy and daughter date night" when you're being paid $200K per year to be there for those votes is not okay.

leftstreet

(38,805 posts)
22. If only we could all stay home to avoid "mundane tasks"
Sun May 25, 2025, 05:52 PM
May 2025

maybe he should apply for disability benefits

Jilly_in_VA

(13,806 posts)
23. If your mentalhealth is such
Sun May 25, 2025, 05:56 PM
May 2025

that you cannot show up to do your job, then you should RESIGN and stop whining, Jawn! I was for you until you turned all tRumpy and whiny.

Retrograde

(11,375 posts)
37. Some companies provide mental health care
Sun May 25, 2025, 10:11 PM
May 2025

or at least they used to - back in my management days I had an employee who was under stress from family issues, and it affecter their performance. I had her talk to HR, who recommended a leave of absence and some coping strategies. This was a large company, and their work could be split up among other people in the department.

But it doesn't work for elected officials: there's no one to step in and take their place if they can't do the job - and their constituents suffer for it.

mountain grammy

(28,680 posts)
25. Please resign and let Josh Shapiro appoint your replacement
Sun May 25, 2025, 05:59 PM
May 2025

I trust him far more than I trust you.. Retire and enjoy your life, please!

HappyH

(175 posts)
29. Yeah John, having to show up at work kinda sucks.
Sun May 25, 2025, 06:23 PM
May 2025

At least you don’t have to dress nice for your job.

WhiteTara

(31,193 posts)
34. time to resign and spend more time
Sun May 25, 2025, 06:51 PM
May 2025

with your family and leave the work to someone willing to do it.

LR3

(117 posts)
42. Shamed? By being asked to do your job?
Mon May 26, 2025, 11:03 AM
May 2025

Yes, John, millions and millions of people are shamed each day, being required to show up to their job in order to earn a paycheck. Sorry that is too much to ask of you.

Thrill

(19,342 posts)
43. I really don't understand people like this
Mon May 26, 2025, 11:13 AM
May 2025

If you aren’t fit to do the job. Why not let someone that is capable do it? Do they love power that much?

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